Why Are Pakistani Parents Neglecting The Training Of Their Sons?
Engr! Shahid Siddique Khanzada
In every big city or village of Pakistan, the priests of lust are roaming around these days. In different cities, especially Karachi, Lahore, Islamabad or backward areas, women are falling prey to the lust of lustful sexual beasts everywhere, in Pakistan, incidents of sexual assault are happening almost every day. In these, along with girls, boys also have to go through these brutal lusts. Later, they are also killed along with lust. Some of these incidents are such that after becoming the adornment of print and electronic media, they become public, Mukhtar Mai, Zainab, Marwa, Jannat, Ezal, etc., etc., and among them, countless incidents like the rape on the Lahore Motorway have shaken the Pakistani society. These have left a very bad mark on our country. But in society, such incidents are attributed to cruelty and ignorance and are covered up. Today, Pakistani society is degenerating into the lowest, dirtiest ground of its mental backwardness. Even in homes, sisters and daughters are not safe. The sexually abused women of our society, including the dead woman buried in a grave, the patient lying in a hospital, the girl wearing a burqa, the one living in a nursing home, the mother with children on the bus, school, office, the sixteen-year-old and four-month-old girl, the eunuch, do not hesitate to subject their sisters and daughters, the women of the family and even speechless animals to their lust and cruelty. There are punishments for sexual crimes in Pakistan, but due to weak provisions and lack of evidence, criminals are released, and if medical experts are consulted regarding the incidents, sexual satisfaction has nothing to do with rape. It is just a means of mental satisfaction in which the subject feels comfort by torturing the object. The purpose of punishments in religious societies is reformation, but due to the weakness of the justice system in our country, even the smallest thief is getting out of jail as a big criminal by the grace of the system. If we focus on reformation and training instead of punishments, perhaps a significant change in society is possible. Parents must protect their daughters, but also ensure the training of their sons. There is an incident in cricket that a few years ago, a female commentator was talking to former South African cricketer Hashim Amla, and Hashim Amla was talking with his eyes lowered because there was a woman in front of him, but he had to answer for his own eyes. We cannot absolve the victims by accusing them of dress and indecency. We need to teach our sons that no matter what kind of woman is in front of us, in whatever situation she is in, we have to protect our own faith. It is not that you should tarnish the honor of the woman in front of us because of her dress. Teach your sons that you have to answer for your own actions, not the woman in front of you, and keep a close eye on your sons so that your children, as parents, do not become independent and tarnish the honor of someone else's daughte
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