Most advanced 21th century
where a man has reached on moon, where there are lot of embellishment in human
thinkings, where a woman became able to combat for her right.
Despite that furtherances & advancement, there are still some areas where still
girls are a victim of illiteracy & ignorance. I have experienced some areas
where there is still hapless & cheap thinking about girls, girls are limited at
home, girls are not considered for education, girls are supposed to hide from
unknown persons. There are not fundamental rights for girls. Girls are
considered as shoes of foot. The parents & ignorant society think that “girls
are only born for marry & take care of their husbands & home”.
In some highly illiterate villages where education is far away from their mind
girl children are killed before birth because they reckon that “ Female child is
mark of worst destiny of parents”. How disgusting & sarcastic their thinking
are!!
At some houses girls are not treated well by their parents. Their parents create
differentiation b/w their sons & daughters. They treat with their son as their
king & behave with their daughters as their slaves. They consider their sons for
education but not their daughters. They consider their daughter as luggage of
someone else.
Some parents love their daughters, want to see their daughters well educated but
they are very sensitive in their daughters safety. To watch & listen daily news
about girls violations they are afraid that if they send their daughters for
education they might pass through same violations. Their pensiveness in terms of
their daughters safety is reliable but it doesn't mean they limit their
daughters at home from the fear of some wicked people who victimize girls, it
doesn't mean they keep away the education from their daughters just because of
that violations. If they are doing that it means they are proving their
cowardness. They are equal accomplices of that callous people who brutalize
girls because the people who choose girls as their victims,they actually want
that because of their fear parents limit their girls at home. So parents should
not be worried about that & create trust on their girls.
Some parents care about their elders & society’s cheap customs & trends that if
they send their girls for education or give liberty to their girls then what
society thinks. They care about society’s disgusting comments. They think if
they take step beyond society’s customs then they might be ostracized from
society. Just because society & people’s useless comments they aren't able to
give free atmosphere to their daughters.
If they continue to care about their poor customs where there is no gender
equality then they can't proceed ahead in terms of their daughters education.
There are many women in their villages I have experienced who just because of
their elders & society cremated their desires & became ready for marry with
their parent's desired person & living their life as house wife.
The biggest hope of any girl who supports her in their education & other life
step is their parents but if their parents didn't advocate her girls then what
last option their daughters remain who are very curious in getting education.
Many girls got suicide because of this. At some houses the daughters of some
parents absconded their home with their desired person & treaded their parents
reverence & respect, this is just because their parents didn't try to understand
what they wanted.
So if we want to see our girls to educate then first of all we have to create
trust on our girls & ignore society's ridiculous comments. Because this society
& their people always dismay & dismantle our girls to get successful life. If we
care about people’s hapless opinions then they exacerbate our girls future &
deter them to get education and compel them to live life as destitute of
husband.
Nowadays at developed areas women are at eminent position in terms of education.
There are lot of women who set the example that women can do anything they want.
The best example of girls is Malala Yusafzai who didn't care about her life to
bring educational atmosphere in her area Swat against terrorism & now she is
holder of Noble peace award. She should be inspiration of every girl who wants
education. Mostly at developed areas girls are going to improve because their
family supports them. But still in villages girls are combating hard to get
education because their family doesn't support them.
So we have to outdo our thinking about girls. We have to give equal priorities
to daughters as their sons, give equal rights to females as males & have to
abolish gender discrimination & give girls freedom to dwell their desired life.
It's request for all the people who want girls education that please counsel for
girls education in some illiterate villages because their girls really want to
get education. If we counsel their parents that what is the power of education
then they might initiate their girls education. So we have to alleviate girls to
bestow their education & live their dream life.
Go for girls education, Go for girls empowerment.
By: AMIT SUKHANI