TO LIVE IN A JUDGMENTAL SOCIETY!

(Owais-Naeem-Uddin-Memon, Karachi)

Society is mainly a large number of people living together in specific geographical area having a common culture, and having a feeling of association. In other words, society is based on judgments of individuals. For instance, if you look around then you will observe that everyone is judged by each other every single day. And, the most common questions are being asked on the dress-code, or what kind of car does that have, the color of skin and so forth. Judging is hilarious common, however if it goes to side of negativity. It further creates multiple mental health disorders such as depression and anxiety. Moreover, it is also linked to ego. Individuals should ethically not throw irrelevant words to others before thinking.

Throwing judgmental views is like a chess game with no end. It has been observed in schools, colleges, offices, and even at different public places. I know us all judging everyone or putting them into different categories and on shelve in our head actually we live in society with different kind of nationalities and ethnicities, we always depend on the ability or chance to instruct with people primarily through sigh.

Judgment has two categories; negative and positive. Positive is described as a point where individuals understand other’s views in a positive manner. Moreover, they themselves try to improve their behaviors or thoughts. On the other side, Negative is defined as to increase ego. It boosts up ego of other individuals and creates negative vibes. If someone passes negatively a message to other person; it may incredibly damage at the mental level.

Therefore we think a lot that how people think of “us” or many be think of me. We have amazing example social media we need to understand that social media is every equally that has a troll and judges are involved in it an if there is a job as you can see on social media website everyone is trolling and criticizing and judging someone, hence we spent a great deal of time and money. Modify our image to make it more fixing with other like “No one is born ugly the problem is we live in a judgmental society”

I believe that, we as a society are judgmental, now we just have to learn to open our heart and accept people in life every person we meet has something really special .We need to understand this that if we need to be successful in this society we have to learn to accept the opinions of other and try to adapt to them rather than changing them you have the power to be a good person. Just focus on people who support and love you don’t need to lose your focus on bigger picture. There still so much to look forward to when you spent time with those who love and support you believe me your life will be super amazing makes boundaries and standup for yourself stand your ground firmly but politely. Every time you don’t need to explain yourself people only understand from the level of perception.

We have so many videos and motivational speeches on judgmental issues on social media platform, everyone is talking about someone personal life. How easy this for people to judge someone, his work, his success even his personal life we live in society where everyone is ready to judge someone, whether we have any knowledge or information about the topic, each and every issue in society has two sides! Like child Labour: I am Sure that no one wants to send their child but there’s must be a reason behind it, hunger, poverty, homelessness, so many other issues, we are not aware about, suicide by youth, and so many other reasons.

“Now we have to stop this judging tag
go inside the heart! Heart of person incidence and issue try to find the real truth.” There should be a platform to provide awareness to reduce the judgmental concerns. Making educated guess and providing judgmental point of views to help others in grooming may absolutely not be considered as the negative ethics.

Passing positive judgmental views is certainly not a huge problem. However, passing negative adversely impacts and hurt to other person; it must instantly be stopped. Living in a judgmental society should not be taken as a negative concern because it might help in positive manners. Having a black color cannot describe anyone’s character and talent; throwing negative points would only hurt that individual. It is neither ethically correct nor morally. Every human should avoid negative judgmental thoughts and views, so that the society may mark an incredible positive impression.
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