30 Things to Stop Doing to Yourself if u want to live a perfcet life. PART-3( LAST)
(Najamuddin Ghanghro, Karachi (Original from Larkana))
21. Stop doing the same things
over and over without taking a break. – The time to take a deep breath is when
you don’t have time for it. If you keep doing what you’re doing, you’ll keep
getting what you’re getting. Sometimes you need to distance yourself to see
things clearly.
22. Stop overlooking the beauty of small moments. – Enjoy the little things,
because one day you may look back and discover they were the big things. The
best portion of your life will be the small, nameless moments you spend smiling
with someone who matters to you.
23. Stop trying to make things perfect. – The real world doesn’t reward
perfectionists, it rewards people who get things done. Read Getting Things Done
.
24. Stop following the path of least resistance. – Life is not easy, especially
when you plan on achieving something worthwhile. Don’t take the easy way out. Do
something extraordinary.
25. Stop acting like everything is fine if it isn’t. – It’s okay to fall apart
for a little while. You don’t always have to pretend to be strong, and there is
no need to constantly prove that everything is going well. You shouldn’t be
concerned with what other people are thinking either – cry if you need to – it’s
healthy to shed your tears. The sooner you do, the sooner you will be able to
smile again.
26. Stop blaming others for your troubles. – The extent to which you can achieve
your dreams depends on the extent to which you take responsibility for your
life. When you blame others for what you’re going through, you deny
responsibility – you give others power over that part of your life.
27. Stop trying to be everything to everyone. – Doing so is impossible, and
trying will only burn you out. But making one person smile CAN change the world.
Maybe not the whole world, but their world. So narrow your focus.
28. Stop worrying so much. – Worry will not strip tomorrow of its burdens, it
will strip today of its joy. One way to check if something is worth mulling over
is to ask yourself this question: “Will this matter in one year’s time? Three
years? Five years?” If not, then it’s not worth worrying about.
29. Stop focusing on what you don’t want to happen. – Focus on what you do want
to happen. Positive thinking is at the forefront of every great success story.
If you awake every morning with the thought that something wonderful will happen
in your life today, and you pay close attention, you’ll often find that you’re
right.
30. Stop being ungrateful. – No matter how good or bad you have it, wake up each
day thankful for your life. Someone somewhere else is desperately fighting for
theirs. Instead of thinking about what you’re missing, try thinking about what
you have that everyone else is missing.