Every person living on the
Earth is suffering from different pain. Pain can be categorizes into two:
physical pain and emotional pain. First we will discuss about the physical pain.
Physical pain refers body ache, any injury in inner parts of body, something
hurts your physical appearance of body like burning, cut during cutting
vegetables etc. on the other hand emotional pain consist a pain which hurts you
mentally and physically. According to research Emotional pain is more painful
than physical one. Emotional pain hits your daily life badly and a person would
not be able to recover frequently.
If you are alive, you will experience pain. Pain is a very important ability we
possess to help protect ourselves. Pain is often desirable. For example, you
would want to know that the frying pan handle is hot before your skin started
charring. People who have lost sensation in one of their limbs often lose the
limb due to injury or infection that they have not immediately noticed. Pain
warns us of dangerous situations. Pain also motivates us to change. For example,
experiencing pain of an unhealthy relationship motivates us to seek counseling
or leave the relationship if that is what is necessary.
I was passing from the street I saw a boy who was trying to take off his shoe.
No amount of twisting or tugging would loosen its grip on his foot. When his
mother slowly tried and she turned the shoes she came to know the reason that a
nail had pierced the sole and entered boy’s flesh, due to his consistent walk it
tightly binding the two. Mother took his child to the doctor and an injury of
boy recovered in a few days. This is what we called a Physical pain which a boy
experienced.
Jack was efficient employee in a factory. Due to his negligence he lost his
three finger of his right hand. This was the physical pain and then doctor s
treatment he was able to work and several operations gave him his fingers back.
Most of the time we experienced Physical pain from our negligence and
carelessness but we blame others for it. Many people said when we are going to
do something good other indulge in it and if we do not want them they harm us
physically.
The fore most important pain which now a day’s every person experiencing either
it is a young or old is an emotional, psychological or mental pain. This type of
pain includes torture, pressure from parents or employer and in our youth
education and career goal is a pressure which sometime hit their emotions. This
type of pain slowly develops but those who experiencing it are mentally
disturbed.
Old traditional people believed in early marriages and dowry system. Girl who
left her parents house for the sake of other family whom she do not and she will
going to spend her half of life with her husband and in laws. What her in laws
did with her. They demanded after marriage for a flat as a dowry but girl parent
were very poor not able to fulfill their demands. In laws of girls start giving
pain. In winter they did not allow her to take shower with hot water. She did
each and every thing cleaning and washing of house. A day came when she was
suffering from a pain which nobody can reduce and understand.
Poverty which provokes a poor to commits suicide or beg for money to fulfill
their diminutive needs. They even do not have home to live. We people give birth
to poverty because a middle class man and higher class man discriminate and not
even take initiative to help them. Instead of helping they start making fun. We
should help them and give them some work to do. Begging should be forbid it is
the main reason to grow the rate of poverty. Government is required to make some
investment on starvation suffering people and who face and experiencing pain of
poverty. My friend said whenever I come across with beggar my heart start crying
I thought and sometime blame myself why I am not able to stop all these
activities and this line of poverty is not removed by me. These types of
circumstances touch our emotions and give us a pain which we never forget.
The most important pain which always experience by only one person and she is a
pregnant woman. During a child birth she bears pain which is physical and also
emotional. There are many people who are experiencing a pain of unemployment,
failure in their studies and life.
We have tendency to become more emphatic about our difficulty, even exaggerate
our pain .The technique is to stop fighting the pain and accept it as a matter
of fact and a part of your life. It takes energy to fight something. Fighting
drains you of energy and gives that energy to what you are fighting. So fighting
your pain only wears you out and creates more pain. I am not suggesting that you
accept the pain and give up trying to do something about it. I am suggesting
that you accept the pain is now a part of your life and you unemotionally,
intelligently seek for and do the things that will manage the pain. What I
believe pain is inevitable but to suffer is your choice. You should make your
attitude to eliminate pain and become strong.