DREAM TO BECOME A GOOD FATHER!!

Fatherhood is a great honor representing one’s ability to pass on the prophetic legacy to his offspring. However, in many communities fathers are AWOL!

1. RESPECT YOUR WIFE!

Our prophet (peace be upon him) said about`Aisha (radi Allah) (may God be pleased with her): “I love this woman”.

As men we set an important precedent in the home. By loving our wives and treating them with compassion and mercy those qualities will fall into the hearts of our children. It is well known that children of abusers have a great potential to abuse. The child is a reflection of the parental shadow. Mercy towards women and represents a baton passed from father to son.So make your personality as a Good family leading person.

2. Be a Man of Integrity.

Once a time any one asked to holy prophet if a Muslim could be miserly and he said: “Yes”. He was asked if a Muslim could be a liar and he said “No”.

Great message for every one.

Dear reader : your child follow your action your life style. So be carefully always speak truth.I asked to father.

Fathers, do you keep your appointments and promises with your children? Do you exercise as much effort to be with them as, say, with your friends or business appointments?

3. Time spend with your son and daughter !!

I will share with you real case.I was teaching in Bahria College karsaz.PMT I mean parents teacher meeting .Once a father told me of all the things that he had showered on his son, the son, no doubt, received a large amount of gifts and gadgets from his father. However, when I asked this young man what he wanted most from his father he said: ‘I just want him to spend time with me’.

Dear reader:

I request to you please please please Make a schedule and spend at least an hour a day with your kids. Believe me, God willing; it will make all difference in the world. A lot of important things can be discussed while throwing a foot-ball, , board games, or taking a short walk or trip to the park. While you’re with your kids turn off your hand-phone and lose yourself in their world.

4. You can give your children lifelong self-worth

My father was soldier in Pakistan Navy.Many time he was not with us.But good is that As a son I remember many great things that my mother told me. However, it was always the praise of my father and his advice the truly struck a chord in my heart.

We, as men, can make or break our children. It is important to avoid harsh words and over inflated perceptions of our children.

Dear Reader:

Believe me my heart loves this expression as it causes you to look at your child as a seed. Seeds need nurturing and, at times, might develop abnormally.

Respect able reader: If Allah willing thus, our good words and advices will plant the seeds that will sprout into worthy adults and noble citizens , good person .

5. Behave as a family

As a father it is easy to push one’s opinions on the household. However, it is not necessarily the most fruitful method. Talking and listening to others will further allow them to feel that you truly respect them and value their thoughts and ideas.

DEAR READERS !!

In end of topic I request to you please follow islam and comfort in your lives .Islam is last and one and only way of meaning full lives.

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