Pakistani society and today's female
Engr! Shahid Siddique Khanzada
The first task of a woman is to take on the first responsibility. To walk equally with family members. To be a true friend with her husband. To endure hardships for the sake of children and honor. Be it a madrasa or a patriarchal system, to live with dignity. To stand firm in happiness and sorrow, to prioritize trust, confidence... These phrases are considered a priority for every human being, regardless of gender. The sanctity of human qualities and respect for humanity have been the hallmark of societies since day one. Throughout history, while men have made tools for their work, women have demonstrated their abilities with beautiful embroidery. The courage and imagination of both men and women in a war environment have been exemplary. When a man has been killed, a woman has sworn to take revenge. While enduring the hardships of a man, she has endured equal hardships. What is the truth of standing together with the family in poverty and hardship? Men have written war songs, while women have sung lullabies. Men have done the plowing, while women have helped in picking the crops. From the British to the present, women have fought alongside men against tyrannical rulers. Honor, dignity and modesty have been the only measure of living with dignity for women and men in society. Women were against tribal wars yesterday and still are today. They are free from the infamy of General Rani and Hareem Shah. If the women of this society were weak, their men would be much weaker. In modern times, women sit in assemblies, avoiding evils according to their means. They strive to remain clean and honorable in any kind of job and business. Due to these qualities of women here, many evils have not arisen yet. As long as there is respect for women and an atmosphere of trust and confidence in men in society, there will be resistance against tyranny in society. There will be a voice for justice. No matter how educated a woman is, she will continue to live with dignity because the philosophy of respecting mothers and respecting sisters still remains in society. Those societies that do not open up to life are the ones that fall prey to misguided behavior. Life has been open to the residents of Mehrgarh from day one. These people are not invisible in development. They live on bread unseen. They smuggle unseen women, trade unseen women in the name of tourism. They get contracts by presenting unseen women. They take the help of women to reach the unseen halls. And they use these unseen women and force them to spend the rest of their lives in misery. Like a circus dancer who joins the mob even after crossing the threshold of youth. Although one can reach one's goals with good training, qualities and hard work. But when a woman is present with weaknesses for facilitation, then what is the need for hard work? In Eastern society, thinking like this is death. A great sin, forbidden. Such qualities, honor and greatness of society are not tolerated by others, when scandals like universities are created day after day. An attempt is made to block the path of women to be educated. Sometimes they are forced to leave the hostels, sometimes they are trapped in uncommitted sins. In our society, women are recognized as hard workers. Despite the lack of medical facilities in remote areas, they are still surviving despite all the hardships. They have to carry water from miles away to fulfill this need. Despite being deprived of modern facilities, they are still united in the facilities of the house. They are alive with the love stories of Samu and Mast Tawakli, Beberg and Granaz. Even today, their role is the most important in making their men heroes. Truly, heroes are born in a land where women have an equal share in the population. Women are doing their part in society with honesty and courage. Pakistani society and today's women "In our society, the history of women's sacrifices has not been written more than men's. The patience and perseverance of women is still to be discovered. |