30 Things to Stop Doing to Yourself if u want to live a perfcet life. PART-2
(Najamuddin Ghanghro, Karachi (Original from Larkana))
11. Stop being idle. – Don’t
think too much or you’ll create a problem that wasn’t even there in the first
place. Evaluate situations and take decisive action. You cannot change what you
refuse to confront. Making progress involves risk. Period! You can’t make it to
second base with your foot on first.
12. Stop thinking you’re not ready. – Nobody ever feels 100% ready when an
opportunity arises. Because most great opportunities in life force us to grow
beyond our comfort zones, which means we won’t feel totally comfortable at
first.
13. Stop getting involved in relationships for the wrong reasons. –
Relationships must be chosen wisely. It’s better to be alone than to be in bad
company. There’s no need to rush. If something is meant to be, it will happen –
in the right time, with the right person, and for the best reason. Fall in love
when you’re ready, not when you’re lonely.
14. Stop rejecting new relationships just because old ones didn’t work. – In
life you’ll realize that there is a purpose for everyone you meet. Some will
test you, some will use you and some will teach you. But most importantly, some
will bring out the best in you.
15. Stop trying to compete against everyone else. – Don’t worry about what
others are doing better than you. Concentrate on beating your own records every
day. Success is a battle between YOU and YOURSELF only.
16. Stop being jealous of others. – Jealousy is the art of counting someone
else’s blessings instead of your own. Ask yourself this: “What’s something I
have that everyone wants?”
17. Stop complaining and feeling sorry for yourself. – Life’s curveballs are
thrown for a reason – to shift your path in a direction that is meant for you.
You may not see or understand everything the moment it happens, and it may be
tough. But reflect back on those negative curveballs thrown at you in the past.
You’ll often see that eventually they led you to a better place, person, state
of mind, or situation. So smile! Let everyone know that today you are a lot
stronger than you were yesterday, and you will be.
18. Stop holding grudges. – Don’t live your life with hate in your heart. You
will end up hurting yourself more than the people you hate. Forgiveness is not
saying, “What you did to me is okay.” It is saying, “I’m not going to let what
you did to me ruin my happiness forever.” Forgiveness is the answer… let go,
find peace, liberate yourself! And remember, forgiveness is not just for other
people, it’s for you too. If you must, forgive yourself, move on and try to do
better next time.
19. Stop letting others bring you down to their level. – Refuse to lower your
standards to accommodate those who refuse to raise theirs.
20. Stop wasting time explaining yourself to others. – Your friends don’t need
it and your enemies won’t believe it anyway. Just do what you know in your heart
is right.