Tips to a Happy Life

(Maryam Misbah, Karachi)

Everyone wants happiness in life. You won’t find a single person who wants to spend a stressed an unhappy life. Every person seeks for the happiness, but the truth is that it can not be found anywhere else than inside you. All it takes to be happy is some changes in your very own self. Today you will get to know the 5 basic tips for a happy life in this article.


So the first of all the tips to a happy life is that you learn to let the things go. Remember holding on the bad memories won’t do anything else than making the situation worse. Ever touched the warm iron incidentally? Did you keep touching your hand to it or instantly repelled? Of course, you can not let your hand touch that hot iron for a long because it’s dangerous.
Once Charlie Chaplin told the audience a wonderful joke and all the people started laughing…
Chapline repeated the same joke and only a few people laughed..
He again repeated the same joke but this time no one laughed…
Then he told these beautiful lines…;
” when you cannot laugh on the same joke again and again…
then why do you cry again and again on the same worry”


Whenever we make mistake we want the victim to give-up. But when it comes to our own turn to give-up someone, it becomes really hard for us. We all ask God for forgiveness, but we don’t forgive his creature easily. Then how can we expect Him to give us up? It’s just as asking a mother to give-up while hurting her children. Another mean of giving up is that give-up when there is anything which can lead to arguments. A lot of argues spoils the relationships, so learn to give up on argue sometimes even when you are right. Showing a stubborn behaviour all the time will make people anti from you and you will lose a lot of beloveds this way.


Another tip to a happy life is that learn to enjoy even when alone. Enjoy your own company, make your time precious for you by being with yourself. Watch movies, listen to your favourite music, surf your favourite websites, read books, sleep or anything that you love to do by being only with yourself. Remember the day you will learn to enjoy by being alone with yourself, no other source can make you unhappy. Do not give the remote control of your happiness to anyone else’s hand. People always want happy and full of life people around themselves, so always show them your positive side. Face your dark side, stress and frustration alone, deal with it and stay happy forever!


Best tip of all tips to a happy life is that learn to be thankful for whatever you have plus crave and work for more. Be thankful for even a small thing you have, even if you don’t find any reason then look beneath you. The life you are living might be someone’s dream life. “I cried because I had no shoes until I met a man who had no feet” -Helen Keller

Secondly, keep craving for new and more things, but do not only crave, keep working for that as well. Remember that only dead bodies can’t move, while an alive person keeps moving on in life. Keep learning new things as much as you learn the new stuff you crave for learning more. Keep craving and working for a better life every moment.


Last but not least tip of all tips to a happy life is that not only be happy but also spread happiness and kindness. A globally renowned Human Resource (HR) professional quoting Lord Buddha said that “knowledge and happiness shared across the world would not retard one’s knowledge but in fact increase by sharing.” So happiness and knowledge are considered to be the 2 only things which get increased by sharing. The easiest way to spread happiness is passing a smile to a stranger every day and let them keep thinking that Man, who was this person and why did he even smile. :p

So these were the five life-changing tips to a happy life, we hope that this article will bring at least some change and happiness not only in your life but in the life of those who are associated to you.:)

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