In this word of competition it is somewhat near impossible to remain happy. We always worry about people , the future, relationships, money, property, education and much more.
All these things make us very sad and sometimes they even throw us in the pit of depression. Today we will talk about some of the simplest ways to remain always happy in our life
1. Forgiveness
You need to develop this attitude in you. It is the basic thing which will help you to be happy. Sometimes some people make us broken emotionally or mentaly and at that time we just think about revenge and it is the biggest mistake of ours. Revenge just creates another revenge which will make you sad or emotionally down once again. So instead of revenge think about forgiveness and forgive the people who did wrong to you. If you want revenge then do it in other ways. Don't trust him/her easily again and it will be your silent revenge towards him/her. It will just make you cold down and believe me after some days you will feel yourself at a higher level.
2. Expect Less
There is a famous Quote→ EXPECT LESS, HURT LESS
And it is very true. We always make a mistake in our life, that is we expect a lot from the people and after sometime when people do something wrong to us we just break down and which creates very serious problems in our life we can even go into depression. There is a simple solution: don't ever expect too much. If someone did something good for you then it is better because you have not expected such things. And now if someone does something bad with you then say it is ok because you had not expected anything from him/her. In this way if you don't expect anything from people then what they do you will never care about their doings. Less expectations is the another key to be happy
3. Givingness
Givingness is good for both mental as well as physical health. Giving means different things to different people. It is not only about giving money to beggars but something more. Givingness means we give something to someone. It can be in the form of happiness, money, gifts, courage, respect , love and much more. Always try to give happiness to other people. Never make anyone sad ever because it will affect your happiness too. Always try to make your parents, your friends, your sister, your brother and other people you meet happy. Sometimes give some gifts to your mother and father. They will be happy by this act and it will show that you really care about your parents. Bring some gifts for your brother , sister and friends too. If you are married then you can do the same with your wife. Believe me you will go through a great kind of happiness and to define that I have seriously no words.
Sometimes you found some needy people on the road, in your society or family and if you have some money you can provide them and this way you made someone happy and this happiness will come to you also
Some of your friends or family members want to do something and be with them and provide them courage always. They will feel you behind them. They will feel that someone is with us
Always respect your elders , your parents and the people who are younger than you. In return they will also respect you and this respect is going to make you happy.
Lovingness is a subcategory of forgiveness. Try to give love to people as much as you can but who deserve it. Not only people but love animals and plants too and these small things will generate happiness in you just like a generator is generating electricity. Your lovingness will act like a generator of happiness which will always generate happiness in you
4. Learn New Things
I will share with you a quotation which I had listen in my childhood days
WORK IS WORSHIP AND REST IS RUST
and it is quite true. Don't rest every time. If you have a lot of free time then try to learn something new but don't be with an empty mind because In free time most people think about mess which create a lot of confusion and depression in life. Try new things and go with your friends and participate in some sports. If You can't do this, read a book or write something. You can even start a youtube channel and upload some videos in your free time. Also you can start blogging like me and upload some meaningful articles which might help the people who read those articles. By all this I just mean to say don't be with an empty mind just do new things and learn new things
5. Accept The Reality
The reality could be related to you, your family , your friends or your surroundings. Reality is reality and don't create confusion in it by giving your own decisions or suggestions. Also accept the reality which is related to you. Who you are accept that. If you are poor then accept that and don't do the things by which people will think that you are very rich and you have some BMWs and you also have some iphones at your home. Accept what you are and be happy, don't do things to show off. It will make you very sad and depressed some day. If you are an intelligent person then accept it and If you are just dull then live with this and try to make improvement in yourself and be happy because God has made you and God never makes a mistake he always keeps some hidden talent in some people which the others don't have. By this I just mean to say If you want to be happy don't do things for show off
6. Religion
I don't know your religion whether you are a muslim, hindu, christian or you belong to any other religion but I just want to share with you a simple thing that Religion is the thing which contributes more than 65% towards our happiness. Now you can imagine how important it is. If you want to remain happy, always keep yourself attached to your religion. Participate in religious practises and respect the religion of others because they have the same kind of belief and faith with their religion just like you have with yours. Always keep faith in God and always try to keep yourself motivated. God has written something special for you. Just be calm and keep patience.