Masculinity or Mentality? It's Time Men Faced the Truth About Violence Against Women:
Let’s be honest — we live in a society where being a “man” often comes with a dangerous mindset. One that silently (and sometimes loudly) tells men they are better, stronger, and entitled to control. And the sad truth is: women are paying the price for this mindset every single day.
From catcalling in the streets to domestic violence at home, from sexual harassment in workplaces to honor killings in the name of culture — women are fighting a battle they never asked for. And at the heart of this war is not just patriarchy — it’s male mentality.
The Superiority Complex Starts Early:
Boys are raised to believe they're superior. "Don’t cry like a girl." "You’re the man of the house." "A woman should respect you." These aren’t just casual statements — they shape how boys see themselves, and worse, how they see women.
So, when a man tries to dominate, hurt, or silence a woman, he often doesn’t see it as abuse. He sees it as his right.
Sexual Violence Isn’t About Desire — It’s About Power:
Let’s kill the myth: rape and harassment aren’t about uncontrollable lust. They’re about control, about proving dominance. When a man forces himself on a woman, he’s saying, "You don’t matter. I do."
That’s not masculinity. That’s weakness disguised as power.
And the root problem? We don’t teach boys about consent. We don’t teach them that “no” means no — always.
Home Should Be Safe. But for Many Women, It’s a Cage:
Domestic violence is one of the most normalized crimes in many cultures. A man hits his wife, and people say, “It’s between husband and wife.” Some even say, “She must’ve done something to deserve it.”
This silence is deadly. It tells the abuser he’s untouchable. It tells the victim she’s alone.
Why Is Gender Still a Life Sentence?
Boys are celebrated. Girls are controlled. Boys get freedom. Girls get fear. Boys are told, "Explore the world." Girls are told, "Stay inside or you'll shame the family."
This isn’t just unfair — it’s dangerous. Because boys grow up thinking they’re kings. And girls grow up thinking they’re burdens.
So, What Needs to Change?
Let’s be clear: real change starts with men. Not just laws. Not just slogans. Not just women raising their voices. Men need to do the hard work of unlearning toxic beliefs and challenging other men who carry them.
Here’s how that change begins:
Teach boys early that women are equals — not weaker, not lesser.
Call out your friends, brothers, or coworkers when they cross the line.
Listen when women speak. Don’t get defensive. Get educated.
Redefine masculinity — make kindness, empathy, and respect part of being a “real man.”
Final Thoughts:
Violence against women doesn’t start with fists or insults — it starts with a belief. A belief that men are more, and women are less.
If we want a better world, we can’t just “raise strong daughters” — we have to raise better sons. Because when men change, the world changes with them.
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