My Own Experience On " Y Divorces R Taking Place In Our Society"

I remained a Chairman of Reconciliation council in 1999-2000 here at our country's metropolitan city, Karachi( having 4 Districts at that moment) and I was Chairman of District East, the largest in population from rest 3. I decided Divorce and KHULLA (EVEN DECIDED BY FAMILY COURTS AS I WAS THE FINAL AUTHORITY TO CONFIRM IT) cases in my 14 months tenure near about 10,000 cases where when transfered left thousands cases. What I observed there?. About 90% wives were at fault for divorce when rest 10% were husbands and the reason of Divorce..... AHAHAAAAAA 8in most cases was nothing but simple things such as I can never forget that case where one Young couple with a son of about 4-5 ys presented b4 me to confirm a KHULLA. Being a Chairman, I was supposed to make reconciliation between them so I asked the reason of KHULLA from wife( seperately called ) shocked me to tell me that when after marriage,my mom came at our home, then my Husband didn't pay Salam to my Mom, Allah O Akbar.... I tried to my best, (Allah knows it better) to forgive husband for this minor mistake but no vain as wife was not ready. I called Husband for clearfication who said that He has paid salam is alwayz paying top her mom but wife didn't agree and after 90 days , I have no way but only to confirm that Khulla as I was bound under the rules to do so.And when I issued confirmation letter and handed his copy to the husband who was an employee in City Bank, he really cried for his wife and son... Now U can imagine what r the reasons for divorces in our society....