One day an expert in time
management was speaking to a group of business students and, to drive home a
point, used an illustration those students will never forget. As he stood in
front of the group of high-powered overachievers he said, Okay, time for a quiz.
Then he pulled out a one-gallon, wide mouth Mason jar and set it on the table in
front of him. Then he produced about a dozen fist-sized rocks and carefully
placed them, one at a time, into the jar.
When the jar was filled to the top and no more rocks would fit inside, he asked,
Is this jar full?
Everyone in the class said, Yes.
Then he said, “Really?”
He reached under the table and pulled out a bucket of gravel. Then he dumped
some gravel in and shook the jar causing pieces of gravel to work themselves
down into the space between the big rocks.
Then he asked the group once more, Is the jar full? By this time the class was
on to him. Probably not, one of them answered.
Good he replied. He reached under the table and brought out a bucket of sand. He
started dumping the sand in the jar and it went into all of the spaces left
between the rocks and the gravel.
Once more he asked the question, Is this jar full? No the class shouted.
Once again he said, Good. Then he grabbed a pitcher of water and began to pour
it in until the jar was filled to the brim.
Then he looked at the class and asked, What is the point of this illustration?
One eager beaver raised his hand and said, The point is, no matter how full your
schedule is, if you try really hard you can always fit some more things in it.
No, the speaker replied, that’s not the point. The truth this illustration
teaches us is: If you don’t put the big rocks in first, you’ll never get them in
at all.
What are the big rocks in your life? Time with your loved ones? faith,
education, your dreams? A worthy cause? Teaching or mentoring others? Remember
to put these BIG ROCKS in first or you’ll never get them in at all.
So, tonight, or in the morning, when you are reflecting on this short story, ask
yourself this question: What are the big rocks in my life?
Then, put those in your jar first.