بسم الله الرحمن الرحيم
رَبِّ اشْرَحْ لِي صَدْرِي ; وَيَسِّرْ لِي أَمْرِي ; وَاحْلُلْ عُقْدَةً مِنْ
لِسَانِي ; يَفْقَهُوا قَوْلِي
إِنَّ اللَّهَ عِنْدَهُ عِلْمُ السَّاعَةِ وَيُنَزِّلُ الْغَيْثَ وَيَعْلَمُ مَا
فِي الأَرْحَامِ وَمَا تَدْرِي نَفْسٌ مَاذَا تَكْسِبُ غَداً وَمَا تَدْرِي نَفْسٌ
بِأَيِّ أَرْضٍ تَمُوتُ إِنَّ اللَّهَ عَلِيمٌ خَبِيرٌ
“Verily Allah, with Him (Alone) is the knowledge of the Hour, He sends down the
rain, and know that which is in the wombs. No person knows what he will earn
tomorrow, and no person knows in what land he will die. Verily, Allah is
All-Knower, All-Aware.”
(Aayah No. 34, Surah Luqman, Chapter No. 31, Holy Qur’an).
The time and place of death of every human is appointed, no one knows about it
except Allah. No one knows how many years he (she) is going to live.
Lifespan of this Ummah
The average age of this Ummah is sixty to seventy; have a look at following
narration:
Abu Hurairah (RA) narrated that Allah’s Messenger (PBUH) said, “The lifespan of
my Ummah is from sixty to seventy (years).”
(Hadith No. 2331, Chapters on Zuhd, Jami’ At-Tirmidhi, Vol. 4).
According to following hadith, Prophet Muhammad (PBUH) lived up to 63 years of
age:
Narrated Aishah (RA): Allah’s Messenger (PBUH) died when he was sixty-three
years of age.
(Hadith No. 4466, Book of Al-Maghazi, Sahih Bukhari, Vol. 5).
Some narrations tell us that Abu Bakr (RA), Umar (RA) and Ali (RA) all died at
the age of sixty to seventy.
The average lifespan is told to be 60-70, but some die at an age much younger
than that, while some remain alive up to many years more than that. It is all up
to Allah, only He knows how much lifespan He has appointed for whom.
Significance of reaching 40 years of age
40 years of age is a very important milestone in the life of a man (woman).
Keeping in mind the average lifespan of sixty-seventy years, one who reaches 40
years of age completes about two-thirds of his (her) average lifespan; thereby
meaning that he (she) enters into the last third of his (her) life.
Apart from achieving this percentage of lifespan, a man becomes strong (both
mentally and physically), he reaches to a stage of maturity, and is able to
understand and tackle the highs and lows of all spheres of the life in a
reasonable and wise manner. We know that Allah started sending the revelations
to Prophet Muhammad (PBUH) when he reached 40.
Allah has emphasized this stage of human life very clearly in Qur’an. Please go
through following verse of Holy Qur’an:
وَوَصَّيْنَا الإِنسَانَ بِوَالِدَيْهِ إِحْسَاناً حَمَلَتْهُ أُمُّهُ كُرْهاً
وَوَضَعَتْهُ كُرْهاً وَحَمْلُهُ وَفِصَالُهُ ثَلاثُونَ شَهْراً حَتَّى إِذَا بَلَغَ
أَشُدَّهُ وَبَلَغَ أَرْبَعِينَ سَنَةً قَالَ رَبِّ أَوْزِعْنِي أَنْ أَشْكُرَ
نِعْمَتَكَ قَالَ رَبِّ أَوْزِعْنِي أَنْ أَشْكُرَ نِعْمَتَكَ الَّتِي أَنْعَمْتَ
عَلَيَّ وَعَلَى وَالِدَيَّ وَأَنْ أَعْمَلَ صَالِحاً تَرْضَاهُ وَأَصْلِحْ لِي فِي
ذُرِّيَّتِي إِنِّي تُبْتُ إِلَيْكَ وَإِنِّي مِنْ الْمُسْلِمِينَ
“And We have enjoined on man to be dutiful & kind to his parents. His mother
bears him with hardship. And she brings him forth with hardship, and the bearing
of him and the weaning of him is thirty months, till when he attains full
strength and reaches forty years, he says: My Lord! Grant me the power and
ability that I may be grateful for Your Favour which You have bestowed upon me
and upon my parents, and that I may do righteous good deeds, such as please You,
and make my off-spring good. Truly, I have turned to You in repentance, and
truly, I am one of the Muslims.”
(Aayah No. 15, Surah Al-Ahqaf, Chapter No. 46, Holy Qur’an).
The verse above confirms that a man attains full strength at the age of 40.
Moreover, this glorious verse tells about some of the responsibilities of a man
when he reaches the age of forty.
The most important thing to be done when one reaches the age of forty is that
he/she should make a re-assessment of his own personality, thank Allah for His
favours and pray for parents & off-springs. The repentance to Allah should be
renewed. One should recite the supplication mentioned in the verse above and
abandon all his (her) wrong acts (if any) from that point onwards.
Thus, one should ask Allah to forgive all his/her previous sins and a renewed
effort should be made by every individual to ensure that he/she leads his/her
remaining life as per Qur’an and Sunnah.
This is a great responsibility for each of us. In fact, it is like a last
opportunity for everyone to get his sins forgiven and start anew towards the
ultimate goal of entering the Paradise. Do not be shocked when I say it is like
a last opportunity. The verse that follows the above mentioned verse explains
this statement:
أُوْلَئِكَ الَّذِينَ نَتَقَبَّلُ عَنْهُمْ أَحْسَنَ مَا عَمِلُوا وَنَتَجاوَزُ عَنْ
سَيِّئَاتِهِمْ فِي أَصْحَابِ الْجَنَّةِ وَعْدَ الصِّدْقِ الَّذِي كَانُوا
يُوعَدُونَ
“They are those from whom We shall accept the best of their deeds and overlook
their evil deeds. (They shall be) among the dwellers of Paradise – a promise of
truth, which they have been promised.”
(Aayah No. 16, Surah Al-Ahqaf, Chapter No. 46, Holy Qur’an).
It is very clear from this verse that whoever is good with his/her parents, and
whoever after reaching the age of 40 supplicates to Allah (as mentioned in Aayah
No. 15 earlier), renews his repentance and make efforts to ensure that he leads
a righteous life (as per Qur’an and Sunnah), then such are the only people from
whom Allah accepts their repentance. Allah forgives the sins of such people and
takes in to account only the good deeds of such people. And above all, Allah
promises Paradise for such people.
Now give a thought to how important this milestone is. And at the same time
those who have already crossed this age should ask themselves: did they act
accordingly?
We should be thankful to Allah that he has given us an opportunity of
forgiveness at this stage of our lives. Whoever ignores this and keeps himself
busy in his usual wrong-doings then there is a chance that it might get too late
for such a person, and he may reach a stage in his life where Allah will no
longer accept his repentance. Inspiration should be drawn from following
narration:
Narrated Abu Hurairah (RA): The Prophet (PBUH) said, “Allah will not accept the
excuse of any person whose instant of death is delayed till he is sixty years of
age.”
(Hadith No. 6419, Book of Ar-Riqaq, Sahih Bukhari, Vol. 8).
Concluding remarks
Sadly, we all are living in false hopes; busy trying to fulfill our worldly
ambitions. While doing so, we ignore our primary duties ordained by Allah. We
forget that all these worldly plans at the cost of our duties as a Muslim
(ordained by Allah) shall come to an abrupt end when death strikes. This is
beautifully explained in following hadith as well:
Narrated Anas bin Malik (RA): The Prophet (PBUH) drew a few lines and said,
“This is (man’s) hope, and this is the instant of his death, and while he is in
this state (of hope), the nearer line (death) comes to him.”
(Hadith No. 6418, Book of Ar-Riqaq, Sahih Bukhari, Vol. 8).
Then we shall move to a never ending world, the Hereafter, with our actions of
this world to decide our fate: Heaven or Hell! May Allah keep all of us away
from Hell!
But for that we need to act. So, whoever has reached the age of 40 should get
his (her) act together and utilize this opportunity given by Allah. Those who
shall be reaching that stage in days to come (Insha’Allah), be prepared.
And Allah knows best.
May Allah forgive me if I am wrong and guide us to the right path…Ameen.
سُبْحَانَ رَبِّكَ رَبِّ الْعِزَّةِ عَمَّا يَصِفُون َ ; وَسَلامٌ عَلَى
الْمُرْسَلِينَ ; وَالْحَمْدُ لِلَّهِ رَبِّ الْعَالَمِينَ.