“My strength did not come from
lifting weight. My strength come from lifting myself up when I was knocked
down”, said Bob Moore.
This statement shows complete picture of real women. Every time women are called
worthless but the more they are degraded they more they struggle to prove their
selves. Here we will take example of Asian women because they have proved their
selves complete women. Let’s begin with their journey of life how they come in
the word, which problems they face in the society and come up with great
solutions.
It’s her first day in the world and every surrounding her seems not so happy so
that she is also crying but slowly she has learned how to smile and at this
stage she know that she will face many problem like this many even more than
this but she should not cry she have to fight against it with smile so she
started smiling.
Life passed a bit suddenly she got the news that she is big girl now yes 12 is
too big for our society she was very happy in her life and with her family and
then questions aroused, does your daughter go out alone? Oh God does she study
in Co-education? The society is so bad we should not allow out girls to study.
After all these questions she was bit upset but she quit and continues with her
life.
Now she is to mature to take her decisions. She is 23 now and she wanted to
achieve her identity in society and she wanted to get fame and name. When she
came out of home to acquire all these things, the society saw her in dirty eyes
and she also faced so many problems sometime she was teased by boys, sometime
she was sexually harassed and sometimes she was the part of people’s dirty
jokes. But again she struggled for herself and faced these all problem with
strength and achieved everything.
Now time to get married. Not said the girl said the society. It can be denied
that marriage is part of life and she have to get married. But does marriage
means to give birth to children or only keeping herself in the house and
upbringing her children. And the time came when she gets married but it was
again the biggest blast on her. At time of marriage her parents were asked for
the dowry and they gave. But the dowry is to be known as death certificate of
women but she proved it wrong. When she came at her in-laws. Now everyday they
have new demand with her and whenever she rejected that demand she was beaten up
by their in-laws but this was the limit now she raised her voice for her rights
and she once again came with huge strength and gave new identity to herself.
This is called women and can never be worthless.
‘’Never try to challenge women she is winner by birth’’