WHY AM I STILL SINGLE?

(Aneela Erum, )

As Shakespeare said :
“Man Is In Chain Everywhere”
This sentence seems good fit for the young boys and girls who are bachelors and the people continuously asking them why they are still single especially for girls.
I am writing this article because now –a-days I am facing this . As I have completed my formal education and some people do ask me this question so seriously that I urge to think answer of it.
I have found some reasons of it. I think this would be helpful who are facing this .So I want to share.

1) YOU KNOW WHAT YOU WANT :
This is the reason, first of all that you don’t settle for less. You know about your demand. You can’t be engaged with someone just to be in a relationship and Self-awareness is thing that is the first ladder leads to be success.

2) YOU ARE SELF-ASSURED:
You are confident about your requirements and you know that you are surrounded by people’s Judgmental eyes. People talk, whatever you do but it’s time to be cheer that You are not so weak to obey people’s spare time criticism.

3) YOU ARE NOT DESPERATE:
As life have many twists. Often you feel so much desperate and what other’s sympathy. Which is not a good response to life? Now If you are still single even at 30 or more than it. Then Congratulate you are not desperate about relationships. You are not so much conscious of being single. You can overcome your self-pity habits.

4) YOU HAVE HIGH SELF ESTEEM:
You seem some people addicted with the relationships and in this age where our society has lost its moral values, there is not difficult to make friendships but these are temporary relationships and bring out happiness and satisfaction which is not eternal. But you have a high self-esteem. You don’t just get into relationship with any XYZ.

5) NOT EVERYBODY CAN IMPRESS YOU:
Everybody has some unique skills but you don’t impress by anyone because you have atight criteria. You are forward looking person and not worried about other’s happiness and success.
Other the above mentioned, there may be many reasons depend upon the person and circumstances but this is general observation.

Being single does not mean you have any personality disorder or weakness in you it means you are awesome enough in your personality that you can’t impressed by everyone and strong to listen society ‘criticism.
So don’t worry and be confident until you find yours :)
 

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