Divorce can save people from a bad marriage.
In our society there are much higher rates of divorce due to dowry issues,
misunderstandings between partners, domestic violence, mental and thinking gaps
between partners, second marriage or affair of partner, forced marriage and
joint family system etc. After divorce, women experience disproportionate
declines in household income, and standard of living as well as sharp increases
in the risk of poverty. Women may also face a higher risk of losing
homeownership and falling down the housing ladder.
In many cases in our society, no matter what the reason is, women are always at
fault for the divorce. Most women will get the blame for divorce while men are
off the hook from any accusation or from being the topic of gossips. “You could
not take care of your husband well, now look what happened.” “You were not
enough for him and look what happened? He is now taken by another woman!” Women
are still marginalized from society because of their status as a divorcee. Women
bear the brunt of the negative side effects from divorce.
Men remarry and forget their responsibilities towards their kids. It’s quite
easy for men to blame women. And the man goes away clean and moves on with the
other woman. Woman left alone and our society look at a divorced woman with a no
respect. Divorce also effects mental health, physical health, and psychological
well being, social integration with friends and relatives. In this situation
where she will go? She’s homeless and we don’t have an idea how much she
Their quality as a woman is lowered and she is considered the last option for
men. But worse, women are seen as the reason for the marriage breakup. Although
our religion has taught us something different, we need to learn how to respect
each other, things need to be change now.
Divorce is not a defect it’s just another life event that comes up in life like
marriage. We need to believe in it and stand strong .Our society needs to change
a drastic mentally. Our religion allow us and give us an opportunity to take
care of ourselves of our minds and our hearts that get destroyed in such
marriages while trying to make it work .We pretend to be so broad minded yet are
so closed minded. We need to strive to eliminate such awful perceptions in order
to save countless number of girls suffering and compromising themselves for the
sake of bad marriages.
If you're in a bad marriage, don't try to mend it – end it”
Because the impacts of unhappy marriages on health. Sometimes it’s better to
walk away than to stay So, a big yes to DIVORCE LAW. Life is too short to suffer
in an abusive relationship. Although it’s still considered a taboo for a
daughter to walk away from a bad marriage, there is still time to realize that
you can rectify the mistake done by many previous generations in our country 99
percent of women do not actually document such things because they know they do
not have any backing and they are survivors of physical, mental and emotional
abuse. Women’s parents should help her get a divorce and help her start her life
anew. Don’t care about what society has to say about your daughter’s divorce. A
girl should always know that her family is with her no matter what. She should
know that if she suffers she has a way out .She should know that if her marriage
doesn’t work she does not have to bear it forever, her parents and siblings will
welcome her back with open arms .This is the confidence and backing every parent
must give to their daughter .Its high time we boost our daughters and tell them
we love them regardless of what future holds for them because A happy and a
content daughter is the best kind-divorced, single or married. I wish we taught
and encourage our daughters to happy in their own skin regardless of their
Unfortunately we live in a society where some parents says:
Listen, girl, if you marry a guy of your choice, all the consequences will be
your responsibility then. We won’t take accountability to any of your conflicts
and it would be totally up to you how you manage to settle your life, It is up
to you if you marry that guy of your choice, we are giving you a free-will to
marry whoever you want to. But remember don’t dare to come back home again.
Your daughter is not a burden that you have unloaded on her husband and his
family. She is your daughter for all eternity. Take responsibility for her life
if she is going through a divorce phase. Bring her back, let her come home.
Welcome her with open arms. Be her strength. Give her hope. Because if you
don’t, the last emotion your drowning consciousness will experience before you
depart from this world will be a blend of deep regret, unbearable guilt, and
infinite shame. And in that moment of unimaginable despair you will realize.
When your daughter is going through separation and divorce she needs support
from friends, professionals and specially from her family. Please welcome your
daughters back from failed marriages because “A divorced daughter is better than
a dead daughter”.