In the name of Allah, The
Most Gracious and The Most Merciful
Tau’bah (Seeking Forgiveness)
Allah (Subhanahu WaTaala), the all-Merciful and all-Forgiving, declares in the
Holy Qur’an:
“Say: O My slaves who have transgressed against themselves (by committing evil
deeds and sins)! Despair not of the Mercy of Allah, verily Allah forgives all
sins. Truly, He is Oft-Forgiving, Most Merciful.” [Qur’an 39: 53]
It is the nature of mankind to be forgetful and to commit sins. However, Allah
has given us the ability to rectify ourselves by turning to Him and begging for
His forgiveness. Our mountains of evil deeds are nothing before the vast ocean
of the mercy of Allah.
Abu Dhar RadiyAllahu `anhu reports that Rasulullah Sallallahu `alaihi wasallam
in a Hadith Qudsi (a hadith in which the Blessed Prophet s quotes Allah) said:
“Indeed Allah the Almighty and Majestic says:
“O My slave! Verily, as long as you worship Me and have hope in Me, I shall
forgive you for what you have done; O My slave! If you meet Me with an earthful
of sins, but do not associate any partner with Me, I would grant you a
forgiveness as great as the whole world.” (Musnad Ahmad)
Committing sins may make you sorrowful, depressed and deeply disappointed with
yourself. But if you return to Allah with a few tears and beseech Him for mercy,
He will certainly forgive you. There is no other door to knock to solve our
issues. None can forgive sins except Him. He calls us to the abode of peace
(Paradise); He is the Almighty who hides our faults and He alone can replace our
bad deeds with good deeds.
The door of repentance is always open for a person until he dies or until the
sun rises from the west, whichever comes first. When something is a necessity
Allah provides it in abundance like air and water. Since we are always sinful
and negligent of Allah and Satan and the self are always inciting us towards
evil, therefore tau’bah is provided in abundance so we can turn back to Allah.
Allah has created a solution to every sickness even if it may be the poison of a
snake. Satan and sins are a major sickness and the cure for it is in tau’bah and
istighfar, crying in front of Allah with deep regret in the heart.
Whenever our tau’bah breaks we should make tau’bah again. Some people despair
and think they are sinners and will go to Hellfire. Tau’bah is so powerful that
it can take a person from the lowest levels of Hellfire and raise him to the
highest levels of Paradise.
Allah (Subhanahu WaTaala), the Lord of Mercy, puts mercy in the hearts of every
mother in the world by which they love and care for their children. We make
mistakes but Allah overlooks our faults. Our worship and good deeds are not
perfect but Allah accepts them and multiplies the reward.
Do not fall into minor sins. Minor sins leads to major sins the way a spark may
start a fire and burn down a house. A believer should run away from sin as one
runs away from a snake. Even a minor sin makes a true believer restless as if a
mountain is above his head and is about to fall on him and crush him.
Make a U-turn in life, wash off your slate of deeds – eliminate the bad deeds
and protect your good deeds.
Method of making Tau’bah:
One should make sincere tau’bah to Allah for one's sins. The requisites of
tau’bah are the following:
1. To immediately abstain from the sin.
2. To regret and wish one had never indulged in the sin.
3. To resolve to never commit the sin again.
4. If one have violated the rights of another person it is necessary to seek
forgiveness from that person.
After making sincere tau’bah be confident in the acceptance of your tau’bah.
Allah (Subhanahu WaTaala) is all-Merciful and all-Forgiving. He is always ready
to accept the repentance of His sinful slaves. Allah says in Surah Al-e-Imran:
“And those who, when they have committed Fahishah or wronged themselves with
evil, remember Allah and ask forgiveness for their sins - and none can forgive
sins but Allah - And do not persist in what (wrong) they have done, while they
know.” [Al-Qur’an 3:135]
After repenting, one should try to live according to the will of Allah u i.e.
the Qur’an and Sunnah. This will bring the utmost peace and tranquility into
one’s life.
Benefits of Tau’bah:
The Qur’an describes the story of Prophet Nuh (AS),
"I said (to them): Ask forgiveness from your Lord; Verily, He is Oft-Forgiving;
He will send rain to you in abundance; And give you increase in wealth and
children, and bestow on you gardens and bestow on you rivers. " [Surah Nooh
,chapter 71:10-12]
One who makes Tau’bah reestablishes his relationship with the Creator of the
heavens and earth.
Misconceptions when committing a sin:
1. The person thinks that no one is watching.
Allah (Subhanahu WaTaala), the all-Knower and all-Hearer says in the Qur’an:
“Verily, your Lord is Ever Watchful” [89:14]
2. The person thinks that no one is near him.
Allah (Subhanahu WaTaala), says in the Qur’an:
“Have you not seen that Allah knows whatsoever is in the heavens and whatsoever
is on the earth? There is no secret counsel of three, but He is their fourth
(with His Knowledge), nor of five but He is their sixth (with His Knowledge),
not of less than that or more, but He is with them (with His Knowledge)
wheresoever they may be; and afterwards on the Day of Resurrection, He will
inform them of what they did. Verily, Allah is the All-Knower of everything.
“[58:7]
3. The person thinks that no one can find his action or intent.
Allah (Subhanahu WaTaala), says in the Qur’an:
“Allah knows the fraud of the eyes, and all that the breasts conceal.”[40:19]
4. The person thinks that no one can catch him or punish him.
Allah (Subhanahu WaTaala), says in the Qur’an:
“So on that Day, none will punish as He will punish. “[89:25]
“…Verily, His Seizure is painful, and severe.” [11:102]
The Conditions of Taubah are as Follows
1. Cessation of the sin.
2. Regret and remorse of the heart.
3. Firm resolve not to return to the sin.
4.
Returning the right of the oppressed, in that which is
particular to the rights of man.
Source:
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