Top 10 Reasons why you should Never Speak Lie
(Najamuddin Ghanghro, Karachi(original from Larkana))
FIRSTY REASON (EXCEPT BELOW 10,
IS THAT WE R MUSLIMS SO TALKING LIE IS PROHIBITED FOR US.... REST U READ BELOW:-
Honesty is the best policy- everybody might have heard this citation at least
once in life. Although truth might hurt someone a lot but in a long term it’s
the finest path that could be chosen. One just need to be intelligent and smart
to say the truth in a way it does not hurt anybody’s feeling. There are certain
lies called as white lies which are pivotal and allowable. But lies which can
make people take in the wrong direction or which keep them under wrong
impression. Everybody lies in life. But it’s sometime difficult to speak the
truth.
But whatever the reason speaking lie always have some disadvantages. Here are
the top ten reasons why one should avoid lying:
10) Can affect the health:
People who lie feel the guilt and keep the secrets which are not very pleasant
and can cause health complications. In unusual condition one occasion of
altering the truth can give you a stroke. It can also cause congestive heart
failure or coronary artery disease.
9) Your life will be stressful:
As explained above speaking lie can affect the health. In starting lying
releases hormones of stress. They are similar to the ones released when we fight
with someone. Increase in this type of hormone causes problems such as increase
in heart rate. It can also cause increase in breathing. Along with this heart
pressure increases when lying. All these problems along with the diseases which
can be caused due to lying make the life stressful. Also an unhealthy man is
more stressed than the healthier one. So avoiding lies can do both the things
that is it will make you healthier and also happier.
8) No one to share:
A liar never trusts anyone else except himself. The liar always faces the
punishment that he is neither believed by someone nor does he believe anyone. We
have the tendency of sharing with the person whom we are emotionally attached to
and whom can we trust. But trusts feeling with liars are very rare. So they do
not have anyone to share the feelings neither do anyone share their feelings
with them. Knowing how self-righteous and proud one will feel when he finally
wrap the arms around the truth is another very big reason to never lie.
7) Liars become habitual of lying:
According to a journal (Consciousness and Cognition) published in 2010 “Frequent
lie makes lying easier and frequent truth makes lying more difficult” or we can
say that “we reap what we sow”. It can be explained in a way that the more we
lie more we get prone to lying and one also finds it easier to lie. In general
also we find things easier when we repeatedly do them. Similarly we will
eventually find lying easier and delightful than saying he truth.
6) Need to remember a lot:
When one lies they have to remember who they bluffed, when they did and what was
the lie about. You will always find Lying burdensome and heavy if you are not a
sociopath. The burden is about the discovery of the truth, revenge and swarm of
negative outcomes which could possibly occur. By the time you start predicting
what you might have done and then start to adjust to your plan, fear and terror
may become virulent.
5) No feeling of accomplishment:
It has been found that the probability of failing of liars is slightly greater
than the one who speaks the truth. Even if one succeeds with a lie, he will
always be deprived and depressed with the feeling of accomplishment. Triumph
originated with a lie is filled with boredom, guilt and self contempt. The
hollow victory does nothing to increase self esteem rather it undermines the
self image since the success included depriving others with a impartial shot and
not with a bluff.
4) People won’t rely on you:
The disadvantage of not speaking the truth is that in long run of life your
partner, companions, friends and the people you live around with will not
believe you and trust you. Eventually when people get to know that you lied they
leave you. So to warn you liars you will have to live a lonely life with no one
around to trust you.
3) Reduces self-respect:
When the person finds that you lied to him he will never believe you again even
if you tell him the truth next time. People have big mouth and the lie you said
to a single person will never remain to that person and after knowing the truth
people will ill talk about you which will reduce your self-respect.
2) Lies can mislead:
Misleading is when someone does not completely lie, but still hold someone to
believe in the untruth. People might have baked a dish in their thoughts from
the lies you said which can be heartbroken if truth comes out. Under certain
circumstances a misleading statement can lead to social and legal sanction. It
can also be considered to be a part of any sort of conspiracy.
1)Breaks relationships:
When someone lies in a relationship he/she destroys it. Lying is a counter
communication that awfully erodes the foundation of the relationship. It’s the
bomb that eventually destroys the relationship. Dishonesty might seem like a
protective device to the person whom they are lying to but in reality they are
protecting themselves. There is no relationship or love without trust. This is
the base of any relationship.