Precious Pearls for a Happy
Family
1. Avoid the next quarrel: Never lose temper at the same time. Don't let the sun
set on your quarrels (Never prolong fights if at all started). It is OK to say
"I am sorry"
2. Do not expect perfection from your spouse: Marriage is coming together of two
imperfect beings. Don't expect wife or husband to like this or that, accept them
as they are.
3. Be a Good Listener: Think before speaking, it is a good idea to weigh before
you speak. You are master of unspoken words but slave of spoken words. Better
than listening from ear is listening through mind (with attention) and better
than that is listening from heart.
4. Be a good forgiver: Some people forgive but they keep the memory alive or
they forgive conditionally. Forgiveness should be complete and unconditional.
5. Grow in the spirit of humility: Be humble. Egos bring arrogance which divide
and separate people.
6. Learn the art of appreciation: We all like to be appreciated. Always
appreciate in front of others. Never criticize in a company of friends and
relatives, you will get opportunities in privacy.
7. Do not argue: Winning love and friendship is far greater than winning an
argument. It is OK to discuss with a open mind. Learn to win love and affection
rather than arguments.
8. Develop healthy sense of humor: Learn to laugh and be cheerful. It is a great
tonic for healthy living and being accepted by friends. It is important to laugh
with others and NOT at others.
9. Always lend a helpful hand: You will win over if you have this attitude of
offering a helpful hand with or without asking.
10. Bring GOD back into your home: This is one of the most important one. Have a
common time for prayers. It brings families together. Families that pray
together stays together.