When I was planning to write a
blog, at that time I thought that why should I write a Blog? What I will achieve
after writing this? Would there be any advantage I will get through it? Will
anyone be interested to read my blogs? etc. etc. etc.
So many queries in the mind and then I decided that YES I should write a blog
and become a blogger.
To start answering all the queries which were bickering in my mind is that one
should write a blog to express their feelings through writing. If you are angry
and you don’t find anyone besides you and want to dump or pass the rubbish on
anyone, start writing it. Trust me; you will feel very much stress-free after
expressing in your words. Now the question over here arise that how I am that
much sure that after writing, one would be relaxed?
Well, this I felt at that time, when I was very much annoyed by one of my
colleague who has written something against me and make fun of mine on one of my
professional step which was never applied in the bank. I was very much upset by
that email and due to that, I misbehaved with my supervisor and also scolded my
colleagues and subordinates and started replying to that email. I wrote
everything which I want to say him in person but instead of sending the email to
everyone, I removed all the recipients of the email and written my address in To
and sent it, pretended that I have sent to him and took the revenge lol. Trust
me, after that I was very much relaxed and calm that then I can decide how to
take revenge from him in a professional manner. Because, if I would reply him in
return, that conversation might create a hype which we never thought off as that
email contains all the group heads as well. Because of my patience and wise
decision, one day, I got success and the step on which he made joke of mine, he
started following it and was asking the same from other colleagues to do so. On
that day, I can’t express that how much satisfied I was and thanking God to give
me courage to calm down on my anger. So I learnt 2 things from that incident
i.e.
1. Don’t be panic on such incident and take a wrong decision which could lead
into a nightmare.
2. Try to make yourself calm and leave the matter on God.
Another question arise over here then why should we write a Blog? If that email
worked by sending it to yourself then it can be done on a simple word document
as well. Then why should one write a blog?
Well over here I would say that by writing such incident on a public platform
without writing the name of that person may give lesson to that person if he
reads it. That person would feel that your action may cause the damage but that
person, instead of dragging it, dump all his anger on a piece of paper and
relaxed himself.
This is just an example of one form of writing a blog. There could be many
reasons to write such as write a review on a film, song, actor, actresses, any
proverbs, your daily routine, biography, educational topics, experiences that
you have faced in your life, ideal personalities, regarding family etc. Even you
can earn through a good blogging as well. It will also improve your written
communication skills and boost confidence in yourself. You would try to observe
many more things for your blogs.
If no one is reading, doesn't matter. At least you are sharing your experience
with everyone and making yourself free from all the worries and burdens. In
future, may be once you recalled and read your old blogs, it would give you some
cherish moments and you may refer the same to your children what you have
written in the past and how you have tackle such situation in the life for their
lesson and learning.
I hope that I have justified all the queries which were quarreled in my mind. If
you guys have any more suggestions or recommendations then please do share in
the comments. I would love to read and would try to improvise in my next blog.