Experience Makes Life
(Shafaq Asif, Rawalpindi)
What is life? In the times of
childhood we don’t understand what is right and what is wrong .Even we commit
sins which we don’t know .No one told us that we are doing the right deed or
not. As time passes we came to know that there is difference between true and
the false. The time when we are unable to speak our life belongs to our parents
then in the middle age we try to give time to our studies then life changes and
go to the next steps. When we become young the life teach us the lessons through
its exam and the ups downs. Then we realize the difference between the right and
the wrong one. Every step of life teaches us to do something and to think better
than before. In every failure there is another success, if there is a continuity
in our progress then our life would exhausted.
Life always prepare us to do bigger things that is more useful for others as
well. We don’t even think that what is the cause of failure what should I do
next and what are the things that makes me failure? We always say why this
always happens to me? Why just me? No no no…the best solution to spend your life
is to think from your spiritual level not from physical level and if people
think like this, there is no arguments for failure. Always thankful to Allah
Almighty for his countless blessings which HE bestowed upon his creatures.
When we are going in the new field we always fear that what will happen next.
Whenever we go to the new place there is fear of new people. How do we know that
this is good or not until we got experience. As we are experiencing the new
things we will prepared for it. Our life is not same at all the times, it
changes day by day. We meet different people daily they share their thoughts and
feelings that makes your sad mood pleasant. As a result the understanding and
the relationships are naturally born within all of us. If someone is giving you
a gift with love you refuse him due to fear that I don’t know what is in the
box, there is fear in your mind so people have to change their spiritual level.
Allah has given us minds to understand the surroundings that what is going on.
Life is to find yourself, to change yourself .In depression people usually
thinks about past and stuck on it ,people think about the future which is quite
unsure. They know that this is not sure either this will happen or not but they
think about future and got sick. People have to think about present which is
going on. Enjoy your this moment not the previous or future one.
In everyone’s life the hardships are common ,they cannot be lessen by doing
nothing. Struggle in life is major factor of success as there is a saying “Hard
work is a key to success’’. So if you don’t work hard you will face failure and
this failure is for your betterment and there is a lesson for you in it. Life
teaches us these type of lessons so many times. So live your life freely make
the mistakes that will teach you much more and have the wonderful memories that
will never be forgotten. The life is a whole book in which you like some
chapters some not .The good chapters gives you a smile but some bad chapters
will change your mood it does not mean that you stop reading. You have to finish
this whole book and cover all the ups and downs come in it. It is useless to
think over past it is just a wastage of time ,try to change your negative minds
that allows to think about past. Be thankful to Allah who has given such a
beautiful gift of life and never lose hope because where there is hope there is
faith and where there is faith miracles happen.