Selfie culture
(Bisma Abdul Latif, karachi)
The world has changed into a
global village. There is a lot more advancement in technology than before.
Selfies have become a huge trend in social media. Nowadays, it can easily be
seen that everyone is busy taking selfies. Whether they are with family or
friends, at restaurants or at family gatherings, they do not bother to talk. It
can be seen that a person sitting next to the other is more interested in taking
selfies than talking to the other no matter after how long they have met. The
respect and the value of relations have become weaker.
I have personally seen this increasing trend among my own friends. They take
several selfies over and over again until they find the right one. Picking out
details about their eyebrows, skin, noses, smiles, teeth, hair and so forth, all
in an attempt to find the perfect angles to make the perfect picture. They even
remain curious about the selection of their profile pictures on Facebook and
other social media sites, which is a time consuming process. Believe it or not,
as harmless as these acts all seem, they build up over time to create great
forms of self-consciousness and a false sense of confidence. Instead of being
okay with who we are no matter what, we strive to find the right picture with
all the perfect details.
We can say that the selfie craze is a mental disorder. It is not an abnormal act
to take a selfie but the act of taking selfies all the time is an abnormal
activity. The excess of everything leads to addiction and can cause problems.
Not only our youth are suffering from this disorder, I have seen many people in
their middle and old age who remain anxious to capture and post their selfies on
the internet. Although it is good to move with technology, yet it should be used
moderately.