Need to stop conflicts.
WHAT IS CONFLICT?
Conflict is a serious disagreement or an argument between two humans. The
question rises here that why we have disagreements or arguments? Why people
don’t understand other’s opinion or why other people says that you are wrong and
I am right? Why we are bounded with our egos and never understand what the third
person is trying to say and never respects other’s opinions and perspectives?
When we will realize that, “when you want to change the situation first we had
to change our self’s and to change our self’s effectively, we had to change our
I strictly disagree by the concept of conflict building, we don’t consciously
build conflicts but we do it unconsciously. how? The very first thing I want to
mark here is that we don’t listen to understand but we listen to answer. We
usually feel hassle when someone’s opinion is unfamiliar with ours.
We have to psyched that in this world everyone has their own opinion and that’s
why we have to see things and understand their opinion from their perspective.
HOW CAN WE MANAGE OR RESOLVE A CONFLICT?
Firstly, whenever you get involve in the conflict you have to be calm and
patient about what their perspective is. I believe that almost every time
conflict rises because of misunderstandings. For example, if you had an
accident, and someone hit your car mistakenly then this is the situation of
conflict what would you do in this situation? Most probably yell at each other
and abuse each other and may be flight, but if you really want change and you
really want to resolve conflicts you should be calm and patient and apologize to
each other and if the conflict root is you then accept your mistake and
apologize. There are a lot of conflict situations in our communities, friends
and family but if we remember the key terms that are
1.To be calm
2.To be patient.
3. Try to change your perspective
4.Try to control your anger
5.Accept your mistake.
plus try to understand the fact that we are humans and we do mistakes yelling
abusing and conflicts will shatter your character.