Why Noor and hundreds of more wanted to have a boyfriend?

(Mohammed Baig, Islamabad)

The case needed first of all registration of an FIR” against the cell phone” that developed that all situations that took the Noor” and many more to that end.
But here lies a question almost teasing and displeasing to the big, mummy daddy cultured families, the rich and the commons too, newly got rich why my (daughters) needed to have a boyfriend majority of which off the record and a few declared in the elites and the rich circles, (my cousin) (used in early 70 and the 80 in higher educational institutions,) keeping him/her in illicit relations for about 4/5 years or more but according to which rules of business, laws, ethics, religious code, bindings of conduct these relations were carried or run and managed happily unless the same or more brutal incident occurred and reported.

Noor, is not alone to mourn for, we have millions of Noor” who are daily blackmailed and cheated and looted and raped and gang raped and killed with no heard and counted?

Whom to blame for by the way, the law enforcing agencies or the parents who let their kids free despite knowing the output of cell phones miracles?

A few days back the horrible event of a girl and a boy in the locality of Golrah with reference to Usman Mirza” that horrified the nation was the ultimate produced of the same “cell phone miracles” and my (daughters) used to come to her boy friend with no fear or any risk to the life or the dignity.

So we must think about the situation being devolved and gradually developing with success with many slogans and claims, Mera Jism, Meri Marzi by the same girl Noor and company.

Unfortunately these slogans run and managed by the modern mummy daddy families are quite legal and lawful and socially authenticated in their communities and they fully support these slogans and brands to be propagated and run and flourish in the name of access to freedom of expression, the right to information the democracy let you go and do your deemed intention freely, frankly without any interruption and restriction by the law or the society.

These mummy daddy lots know very frankly that each action has its reaction in accordance to its act and have an impact on the living of the individuals in terms of god or the bad and sometimes undeniable results and repercussions.

But the history tells that such events or the incidents least matter in high society and the members of the elites, the rich or the rulers never mind it and continue their mindset/mission.

According to Saint Karl Marx” these lots are the real enemies of any society and the major barriers towards any social change based on social justice because they do not want to lessen their holding on all exploiting means and give the working classes their right to live and sustain and keep them in such an immaterial race.

They in general claim to be the champions of a social change and fight for that mission or the goals such as posing to be the leaders of a new change in the society, unfortunately completely disregarding and denying its consequences such as faced in the recent days.

This all illicit, ugly and dirty package is not produced from a one day incident but has had a time period where we let it come, flow and flourish with love.

Many so-called intellectuals earlier believed that Coke” does come alone but many differed with and posed it a cultural invasion by the West and the US to ruin and destroy the Eastern Culture and drag we all to a free society where no mummy daddy are required neither needed for any sort of social advice or friendly activities.
It thus makes our girls and the boys go to a nuclear family system where there is no such ugly bindings of the parents or the elders that look like posing more intelligent, experienced and wide vision to teach and train the young on their social activities.

How daring are my (daughters) and the boys of today one cannot imagine with reference to their activities while breaking the social norms and ruining the cultural values so daringly and boldly as one said under the police custody he is very powerful and the petitioners are very weak?

The said statement of a guy was not a rant like talk but he was very confident of having used the state machinery, the intellectual forum, media factories and the legal institutions to get the incident of kidnapping, rapping, humiliating , video making, broadcasting, beating, torturing, threatening, money grabbing and even doing sexual insult manageable.

“What she has been posing to her parents perhaps not a secret now nor for that girl but for all the girls who dodge their parents like Tina” used to come to her boy friend from Chakwal and found dead outside the Mandhrah, residence of a teacher, thrown from the upper story after gang rapped and killed.

If investigated thoroughly the girls in such cases are not dodged nor cheated to come and be misconduct, (she) knows the end game once it has to come and happen.
However the (girls) cheated their parents positively.

If the girl had ever told her mother or the father on her liking she could be saved perhaps.

The issue today is, did we learn or ready to learn or just taking the cases as the routine matter, perhaps taking the cases the routine matter with a little protesting and mourning at websites, facebook, twitter, linked, emails etc?

The second and the biggest issue after such cases is the role of the courts, always keen to pose their love with the rich, the elites and the rulers, like the son of Kashmala Tarik, killed more than 4 people and had the bail to flee.

The third role is of the wakeel sahib '' who are always eager to have the rich clients in the name of access to early justice to each whether he/she has killed one or ten on the road or in the daylight like the poor Zain of Lahore.

And the fourth is the police bahader, always ready to help the rich and have more than 100 games to play with the cases, like the Zain of Lahore,poor of Sahiwal killed on the mall road by Kanju brothers and got freed by the intellectual games of the police, nobody witness the evidence and the second was bargained.

Thus Pakistan needs now to have its cultural values reviewed with having one choice: either let the things go on and welcome the things happening like the same in the name of culture of mummy daddy” or to save it and reject all dirty things that took us all to these conditions, having shame and sorrow.

 

Mohammed Baig
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