Raising Voices, Demanding Change: Tackling Marital Rape in Pakistan and Beyond
(Syeda Qandeel Zehra, Karachi)
Marital Rape
Marital rape is an extremely sensitive topic that often remains unaddressed not only in Pakistan but also in many parts of the world. It is unfortunate that people are hesitant to talk about it openly.
One recent example is the controversy surrounding the drama "Tere Bin," which gained popularity but also faced criticism due to its promo hinting at marital rape. As soon as the promo aired, social media platforms were flooded with posts expressing concern that such a topic should not be portrayed in the drama.
The question arises: why should marital rape not be addressed? Are people only expecting fairy tales and avoiding the harsh realities that exist in society? It is crucial that this issue is addressed and discussed openly, as ignoring it only perpetuates the problem.
There could be several reasons why people are hesitant to talk about marital rape. Firstly, societal norms and cultural taboos often restrict discussions related to sex and intimate relationships, making it difficult to address such a sensitive issue. Secondly, there may be a lack of awareness and understanding regarding the concept of marital rape, with some individuals mistakenly believing that consent is implicit within the institution of marriage.
Furthermore, discussions around marital rape may challenge deeply ingrained beliefs about gender roles, power dynamics, and traditional family structures. These conversations can be uncomfortable for some people who may fear the disruption of societal norms or the erosion of cultural values.
However, it is essential to overcome these barriers and have open conversations about marital rape. By addressing this issue, society can raise awareness, change attitudes, and work towards ensuring the rights and safety of individuals within marriages. It is crucial to recognize that consent is a fundamental aspect of any relationship, including marriage, and that no one should be subjected to any form of sexual violence or coercion.