10 Principles For Upbringing Of Children

(Maryam Bari, Lahore)

1. Teach By Example, Because Children Listen With Their Eyes.

2. Introduce Allah To Your Child: His Glory, Obedience To Him Over Obedience To Anyone Else, Asking Only From Him, Importance Of The Faraa’idh.

3. Introduce Rasoolullah (S) To Your Child: His Life & Times, Following His Sunnah In Everything In Life, His Message, And His Work: Da’wah.

4. Systematic Education Of Islam Parallel With Regular Education: 4-5 Hours/Week; Arabic Language, Tajweed, Qira’ah Ul-Qur’an, Aqeedah, Hadith, Fiqh, Seerah.

5. Manners: Akhlaaq. Attention To Detail About All Aspects Of Behavior Reinforced By Your Own Behavior. You Have To Practice What You Preach.

6.Concern For Others : Self Centered: Family Members, Environment, Servants, Strangers, Road Users, Neighbors, Shop Keepers: Sensitive Or Senseless?

7. Physical Fitness: Mothers Stop Pampering. Regular Sports, Especially Team Sports, Nutrition, No Junk Food.

8. Scheduling Time: Wake & Sleep Early, TV, Daily Muhasiba, Diary Writing.

9. Responsibility: School Projects, Commons, Home, Neighborhood,

10. Drive For Excellence In Everything: Being No.1. Winning Is A Habit. So Is Losing. Focus On Quality. Be A Standard Bearer Of Islam.

Source: At-Talib

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