Friends are more than sisters
and it has been proven true by my friends. My friends are more precious for me
than anything else in the world. I always wanted to know how others shed light
on the nature of friendship but one just marks which one experiences. Every
circle has its ups and downs but despite of these circumstances if one does not
break the circle and try to overcome the perturbed situation it means he/she is
the one who is exceptionally talented in the field of binding circles.
I met them all at college. With the passing of time the number of group members
and friends increased and the seeds of closeness were planted between us. Now
plants have grown through these seeds and I guess no one would ever be able to
eradicate these roots.
Many couplets would be seen in this circle who are always ready to make others,
part of their joke and highly expertise in helping each other in the time of
need. Friendship goals are always better than anything. After the preference of
good books the second thing I prefer is a circle of good and true friends who
are altruistic. Those who never turn with positive relief to have a glimpse of
the parasite are actually not true friends (as far as my opinion is concerned).
I descry many friendship circles but they are not as strong as they should be
but my friends circle is somewhat a different thing.
We had many conversations and during one of those wondrous extended
self-revealing teenage conversations we made a place in each other’s hearts. We
sat side by side to each other in every single morning on the same bench while
discussing the same moot points.
In that long list of friends, there are some to whom I could call at 2 am when I
have to make some last-minute decision. We travel together, share our secrets,
deep thoughts and things which are at the edges of our mind. If sometimes I am
upset about something, I share and ask for their advises because I always trust
their judgment, although I might not follow their advice but it comforts me a
little. Whenever I am around them I can be completely and unselfconsciously
It’s not the thing that we all don’t get on each other’s nerves. It’s the thing
that we do and proudly ask “If there is anything else left I can do wrong for
All the elements between us are making our friendship too strong.
Let me share a memory which I guess is the best of all. Once me and my friend
were sitting in the class, it was not that lecture was over our head but the
thing was, we were not taking interest. It is all that matters, if we do not
take interest in something it always goes over our head.
The other shiny morning, me , Kashmala and Annie decided to bunk the lecture
because our ma’am already said once “If you are not interested, you may stay
outside or leave the class”. How we left the class and ran downstairs was the
funny of all. The path which we had to use to run downstairs was the same from
where our teacher had to come. We hidden ourselves form her, got mixed up with
other girls, after some time when situation cooled down finally ran downstairs
and reached at our friendship point. We enjoyed the every single moment of bunk
as much as we could. After the lecture we were informed that somebody told our
names to the teacher and my name was announced over fifty time, because I was
the class representative (CR). This thing got us giggling and butterflies curled
in our belly. We decided to stand face to face to the situation with regard to
Next day before the class started we were very excited to see what was going to
happen with three of us. When teacher came she announced our names and made us
to stand in front of the whole class during the lecture. When she asked about
the reason of leaving the class we gave her the same statement which she once
given to us and said, we avoided to create disturbance in the class and stayed
outside. Our this point made everyone laugh at our mischievous behavior, but our
obstinateness was at its extreme peak and we were enjoying our insult.
Nothing could be enough to describe the patience and good nature of our ma’am.
She remained cool during the whole lecture and the only thing she said was “this
is not an excuse”.
When she left, we laughed hard but later it dawned upon us that we did wrong.
After this day that teacher became one of our favorite.
The thing which we get in these years is, nothing can break our friendship. The
understanding and the strong bond which has developed in these years, neither
can be ended nor would anyone want to do so. We have a special connection
between us, a connection of the heart. Friends who are like family can bring
just happiness to life. Closer the bond, greater the power. When a friend dies,
a part of you dies, as you lose forever the experiences, the jokes, the
references that you shared once.
Good friends fill holes and simply add richness and joy into life.
Note: All those friends with whom I have spent time or shared memories, are the
best part of my life. I haven't mentioned all nor I could be able to do so but,
you all are just love, thanks for being a part of my life. You all have given me
love, respect, experiences and nothing can break the record of these things
which you all have done for me.