Unfortunately Children are not even safe in the hands of Parents
(Mehr Parwar, Rawalpindi)
As usual another
year came to end, buried along with it several bitter stories of
humanity and humiliation. We witnessed many reports of violation
of human rights from young to old and from toddlers to new born
broods. We also came to the news of many significant
personalities including government and private representatives
enjoying conferences and executive meetings to shed the light on
human rights, dignity and respect but all vein. Hence, 2017
remained an year of child violation and exploitation as many
innocent children’ lives came to end earlier to begin. Most of
the children were murdered by their parents and relatives.
People made videos and uploaded them on media to show the world
but no- body took any apprehend action on the spot against the
violation and to save an innocent life. A number of such cases
reported from different cities of Pakistan and mostly from
Punjab. Behind that every case the murderer and killer was a
father or a mother or both. In only one month, in December 4
cases of heart breaking news of children killing were reported
from different cities. For instance; a 2 day child was thrown in
the river. Few days ago a father threw a 2 year child from the
roof of their home as the mother was insisting her husband to
take the child to hospital as the child was not feeling well.
The child commended death on the spot. Another incident took
place In December 5, 2017 in a village of Punjab where a deaf
girl was thrown into river by his father. Likewise we came a
cross with another episode showing a father throwing his 3
children in the river. Unluckily we find several such unpleasant
stories around us reported or hidden.
The commitment of Child Rights convention strongly confess to
give every child the right to grow up in a safe environment
without being exploited. The cruelest and wickedness action is
to kill children in any case. In the holy Quran Allah The
Almighty says, “You shall not kill your children due to fear of
poverty. We provide for them, as well as for you. Killing them
is a gross offense” AYAH al-Isra .
The UN Convention on the Rights of the Child (1989) explains the
most crucial responsibility of parents for raising their child,
under the condition that they are guided by the best interests
of the child (Art. 18), and that the child's well-being and
development are their priority. The Convention also provides for
the steps parents have to take in the best interests of the
child and provides appropriate direction and guidance in the
exercise of the child rights. (Art. 5). Further article 19 also
visibly dictates to nurture children in a caring environment
that is free from violence and humiliating punishment. To save
the children from violence, the representatives of child rights
must work at ground level by passing laws and by implementing
them strictly at all levels. At legislative level strictest laws
must be made to punish the monsters who commit such deplorable
acts of killing children. The government of Pakistan must
establish an independent commission to monitor, protect and
promote rights of the children. This commission must be
responsible to monitor child rights obligations and educating
parents on human rights as fundamental step towards the
promotion of child rights. Further government must arrange
advocacy and awareness trainings and campaigns within
communities. Similarly, Child Rights and Human Rights must be
part of our national curriculum to reinforce parents’
responsibilities in this regard. Laws must be made at
Legislative Assembly at provincial level that prohibits all
kinds of violence of children from family settings to schools
and communities.
In the end I would say that every one of us is obliged to take
tangible steps to save our future generation in the country.
This cause can be achieved by planning an integrated strategy
including awareness raising plans and implementation of existing
and new laws along with a political will by the government and
political parties. This process should be started as soon as
possible with the active participation of Non-Government
organizations, social welfare organizations, trusts and social
philanthropists and the public at all.