We all know the secret
ingredients that nature used to make girls, Sugar, Spice and everything nice.
But do we know what men are made of? It is universally assumed that men are
tough, they don’t cry, and they don’t need emotional support. Just to understand
what your guy wants from you, I have compiled some pointer for you to know your
man.
You look handsome.
He dresses up for a sit-down dinner with your family He is wearing that blue
blazer you presented him. His hairs are jelled up, not a hair out of place. He
is sitting on the sofa switching through the channels while waiting for you. He
looks like a model in your lounge. Tell him! Girl. Tell him that he looks good.
He needs to know that someone finds him beautiful except his mama.
I am not in a mood to talk.
A call came from his home. It was his mother. You stand by the door and listen
as he is trying to well up his tears. After hanging up he looks at you and goes
to the bedroom. You find him curled up in the middle of the bed, occasional
hiccups follow. Don’t go and console him, give him time alone to clear it up.
Bring him a steaming mug of hot chocolate because what isn’t cured by hot
chocolate?
All wrinkled up
You find him looking at himself in the mirror, finding the grey hairs that have
just started to pop. You laugh at him and he gets red. As you are afraid of
getting wrinkles and grey hairs, men are afraid of getting weak too. They have
been the sign of strength ever since they were born, now stooping shoulders make
them scared
No fake compliments
He says you look pretty in the red dress that you hate. Don’t look at him with
anger. He is not faking it. He really thinks you look beautiful. Men are easy
and simple. They don’t beat around the bushes
Element of jealousy
You both came back from the party and he has been quiet ever since. He is just
nodding to whatever you are asking and answering with an occasional yes or no.
You are worried if he has gotten the flu or caught a bug. You check his forehead
but its all good. So, what it is you think? He might not say it, but we can tell
you he is a bit insecure about you. You are all sunshine and magic, but
sometimes he gets possessive about sharing your love with others. He gets
jealous too.