First of all it is necessary to take responsibility of your life. If we want to lead a successful life we must have a certain goal in life, mission which will make us hopeful in our life. Find up your natural abilities. Try to enhance them .Find solution of your problem by deep thinking .As every problem has a solution. Be a good listener .Seek first to understand than to be understood .listen to other people’s suggestions and advices. Learn from their experiences. Renew up your self.take initiative to make it happen .take baby steps to perform difficult tasks don’t give up . At least something is better than nothing. If you fail then it is the proof of that tha atleast you have tried.What about an idea of changing your bad habits .as we are stronger than our habbits.if one seriously wants to change his habits or addictions it will just take around 30 to 40 to let them change..
Sow a habit and you reap a character
Sow a thought and you reap an act
Sow an act and you reap a habit
Sow a habit and you reap a character
Sow a character and you reap a destiny
To lead a successful life followings are the points to be kept in mind :
v Improve your self confidence
v Accept your imperfections
v Make smarter decisions
v Get more done in less time
v Balance in your life
v Treat other like as we want them to treat ourselves
We can’t get ahead in our life until and unless we have positive people in our life who do not through us back through their suggestions and company . As good company of wise people put as forward in life recognition of such person is necessary and the most difficult one .Positive minds can get ahead in life .In today’s world sentiments have no place So one should have realistic thoughts . and must be enough mature and flexible to overcome his worries .