Marriage is a connection between two people sharing love and
supporting each other at a same time. It’s a special bond formed between bride
and groom. But in Pakistan we face many problems. Like early age marriages dowry
problems and domestic violence.
Pakistan has the sixth highest number of absolute child bride .Early age
marriages cause many problems first their immaturity and sudden change in roles
cause many problems in their relationships. When their immaturity faces physical
and emerging demands leads to depression, obstructed labour and increasing rates
of miss carriages. Child brides faces limited opportunities for education and
are at increased rate of domestic violence and they face many house hold
problems when they are married to older man.
The main reason of domestic violence is illiteracy which is at very high rate in
Pakistan. Which leads to depression and anxiety. Women who have experienced
domestic voilence or abuse are at a highter rate of experiencing mental health
issues many women had committed suicide because of domestic voilence to get free
from all of the trouble at once and not fulfilment of sexual need by husband can
also cause domestic voilence. Jealousy can cause a mental health issue. Domestic
voilence can form any where at any age it can be found every where and is
equally damaging where ever it occurs.
Dowryproblem is at the third highest rate death in Pakistan. The dowry system is
a great evil exists in Pakistan. Not only nowadays but from ages it has been
facing by everyone in Pakistan and many other countries all over the world. In
Pakistan 95% of marriages involve the transfer of dowry, many relationships like
engagements has been broken because of high demands of dowry.In Pakistan there
are 2000 dowry related deaths per year occurs. Dowry is often conceived as
demands which a bride’s parents handover to the groom and his family during the
wedding. But in Islam dowry demand of dowry is un authorized. According to a
Hadith (sayingsofMuhammad), mahr is the amount to be paid by the groom to the
bride at the time of marriage, some of which may be delayed according to what is
agreed upon by the spouses.
Dowryis linking to voilence basically the guardian begins to misbehaving to the
bride and to the bride side for not sending dowry and her in-laws starting
verbal and psychological miss treatment.
THIS ALL NEEDS TO STOP.