To all the men out there

(Amna Baig, )

Can I ask you why you can't actually prioritize her the right way? Why can't your words and actions go side by side? Why there has to be a major difference between both of them?
Why do you reach out to her only when you get time and then call her special, why not when she actually needs you?

And then Why need her help especially when you're in crises?

Do you really think life gives second chance to everyone?

I want you all to look for someone who is on ventilator at any hospital, striving to take breathe and struggling for life just to be in this world for whatever time, just to be with the loved ones, just to be there for everyone he loves.

I want you all to look for some orphanages and old homes too. Look how much desperate they are to go back to what's called "their place", how much they want to be among "their people" but like lots of lost ones, they are left there by their loved ones. I wonder how can someone who loves you so much can someday actually becomes a problem for us? Was that even a love then? Or have we actually confusing this four letter word with any kind of emotion which may resemble love.

Ever thought why we are here? Why the creator made us and want us to be with our family and do the righteous things. Why Prophet (PBUH) cried so hard while saying "Take care of women"

Imagine someone who is keeping all the things together, someone who is like a glue to all, someone who loves to take care of everything and especially if it belongs to you. I am not saying that it's only the men who are wrong but I am done seeing young girls crying over someone who just can't be the one, who just doesn't not deserve any of it and that is why taking it all for granted.

I just hope, one day you will realize that how important they are in your life and how beautifully they are keeping it all connected.

I would just want you to stick to your words. Either don't call them special or if you do, then make them feel like one.
Try to make a difference.

 

Amna Baig
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