Love is a natural emotion or a
feeling which is a blessing, natural phenomenon and gift of Allah. It is not
necessary that we only love those who are our blood relations in fact we can
love anyone to whom we feel affectionate. Generally talking it is very natural
to love our parents but sometimes a child does not develop love relation to his
parents. There are many reasons behind it, commonly it is due to lack of
understanding, care, affection and a great gap of communication. Sometimes as
life is like a complex formula and no one ever solve it and in such
circumstances, misunderstanding created between parents and child and child feel
insecure and thus he become distracted from the love of his parents. But this
particular thing happens in very rare cases because parent’s love is
unconditional, shelter for children, beautiful gift so there is no alternative
for it. The most remarkable thing in the love of parents is that it is not
selfish one and pray, pray is the only thing they do. Love is based on five
things.
1. Understanding
2. Trust
3. Loyalty
4. Compromise
5. Sacrifice
Parent’s love is combination of these all things as it is a saying:” Chances
makes your parents and choice makes your friend.”
In our life, we indulge ourselves in two kinds of relations one are those who
bestowed on us by our very own destiny and others are those we choose.
Friendship is the first and last step of love. Some people believe that liking a
person is love or it is a beginning of love. But liking a person is completely
different from loving. We meet many people in our life and we also like most of
them because of their look, talking style, dressing or may be ideology or
thinking. Some people also believe in love at first sight but it’s not
applicable for a long lasting and eternal love. Liking a person does not mean
that person is worthy of being a good friend, trust or able to sacrifice and
compromise. Love is such an entity in which compatibility between two souls is
very vital. No matter how different there are in their character, personality,
qualities but they should understand each other in a way that they could predict
each other plans, thoughts and emotions. Their trust should be like a hard rock.
A love relation will nourish more and more when compromises and sacrifices made
to see each other happy. Love will only remain pure and eternal when we
understand its true meaning and perfect love is indeed very rare.
“To be a lover will require the subtlety of the very wise, the flexibility of
the child, the sensitivity of the artist, the understanding of the philosopher,
the acceptance of the saint, the tolerance of the scholar and the fortitude of
the certain.” Life is meaningless and incomplete without love. Love is most
charming and pleasing feeling in the whole world. “Being deeply loved by someone
gives you strength, loving someone deeply gives you courage.” There is only one
happiness in life to love and be loved. To love and to be loved are the splendid
joys on earth. Love is patient and kind, love is not jealous or boastful, it is
not arrogant or rude. So to have a pure love of friend, partner, parents make
our life worth living. Love is the greatest truth and it is the best thing to
happen in a life.