Hardly a day passes, when one
doesn’t read about a young woman taking her life because of constant harassment
by her in-laws, or of a newly married young girl, being to death by her greedy
husband in connivance with his parents.
However, the cause of refusal to give dowry and calling off of the marriage have
also taken place in ………………. This should certainly be looked upon as an example
to be emulated by all girls. It is often heard that dowry is considered routine
and acceptable. The girl’s parents try to fulfill the demanded so that, their
daughter would be at peace at her in-laws place. However, the demands gradually
rise to a level, when her parents are often on the verge of bankruptcy. In the
mean time, the girl is physically and mentally tortured.
The government has also introduced legislation, to prevent this practice and has
made it an offence, punishable by law. If demanding dowry is considered a crime,
so should give dowry. Boys should come forward and refuse to accept dowry and
girls should refuse to give in to the demands.
Media can play a very important role in combating this social evil. The various
media such as press, television and radio can through advertisement and, through
famous and popular personalities, protest against the give and take of dowry.
Of course, a social revolution would be needed to completely eradicate this evil
from our society. A small beginning by these girls would certainly influence
more girls to do the same.
Yours faithfully,
Huzaifa Shah,
University Of Karachi.