For females,selection of a
suitable dress is very significant but it often becomes a problem.In selecting
costumes,girls and women are choosy and sensitive about stuff,color and
design(more then men).They spend hours in shopping and hardly
satisfied.Sometimes they are are afraid that if they like a dress ,may be it
would not appear good to others i.e their family and friends.The matter becomes
easy if they take a second opinion of any sincere one in the purchasing
process.Who would be more sincere and closer to us to give a true opinion?This
is a question which really matters in this material life.Human opinions are
often contrary,transfer in one condition to another,are different from time to
time.People are ,generally,critics and tease us.
After much thinking,i reached a conclusion that i would like to prefer the
opinion of the Lord of the Universe who loves His creature beyond expectations!
Almighty ALLAH ,the Creator of human beings tells us clearly,how should we dress
up.He is the designer of our body and soul,heart and mind.He knows well our
psychology and the psychologies of others around us. Almighty ALLAH has revealed
special commandments for his delicate creature in His Heavenly scripture.The
Holy Book of Quran teaches a complete code of dress as well as of conduct.A
woman is just like a pearl ,should be covered in pearl-shell.She is
precious,special,worthy to be secret,so she is told to conceal her physic and
hair in particular.Once a Muslim scholar was asked,why your women do not shake
hands with men?He replied promptly,Does your Queen shake hand with everyone?He
said ,No.The scholar said,so our women are just like Queens.Thus,a Muslimah is
blessed of a special beauty of eeman. Her deliberate submission and obedience to
her Lord makes her more prettiest,more elegant and pious.So,Hijab(a covering
dress)is the choice of a believing woman. Hijab is protection from bad eyes.It
prevents vagabonds and flirts .
The beauty of a muslim woman is only for her home and family.Its not so cheap to
display as goods for sale in the market.In rare circumstances,if she has to do a
job or go outside her home,she should be dress up decently. Hijab is a sign of
modesty,which should reflect from her conduct and attitude,her language should
be more reserved and to the point .Muslim Men are responsible too in this
regard.They should be honest to their Lord,because He is the Creator of their
eyes and hearts.Almighty ALLAH knows well what is in their minds.They are
ordered to lower their gaze.He orders both men and women to fear ALLAH.He wants
to make us more pure and pious ,our hearts more cleaner glowing with the light
of eeman. The light (Noor e Hidayat) is the most necessary asset of every Muslim
in this life and in the life beyond this life !