Dear viewers,
Let me first introduce myself by taking the opportunity providing by this
webwite before reading my experiences with devine relation, what I think about
real friendship with a legitimate relation. This is just to share to those who
had same experience and for those who are running with the same.
An Ideal life
The famous proverbs which says’ “ The poorest person is who had no friend”, “A
friend in need, friend indeed” & “One who had real friends is a luckiest”. A
friendship is a relation between two or many others persons who cares, loves,
feelings sensed each others in their every phase of life irrespective of
consideration of status. Another proverb describes friendship that ‘a real
friendship is who just met with you for whilst but not friend’. The title of
friendship has to go to only those who always remain well wisher of their
friends and closest to each other during wears & tears without any personal
gains.
Anybody else can be a friend of anyone else, only who must fulfilled the quality
of a friendship. A closest person is a companion of life like husband and wife
can easily be turned into friendship. No any relation is closest than that
relation, if the both fulfilled their responsibilities as specified & provided
under our customs it can be called an ideal life and there will be no regrets of
deprivation of luxuries and essentials of life and can make happier their every
moment of life.
The peoples who have an excellent atmosphere over their all segments of life,
i.e. at earning resource site, relation between others and especially towards
conjugal life might call living in a happy life. It can be said a good folks
where understanding are visible among the companion especially towards minds
sensing. The un-demanding peoples are found flexible to adjust into the any kind
of atmosphere proved to be reliance & respectful to each other and can
comfortably live during the time of wears and tears.
A handy experience is rest with me that since departure of cooperative companion
of life who really could be called a friend in need friend indeed, lived always
remained under difficult time but not get hampered for a single time for want of
any demand unfulfilled. The people had gone get remembered with good memories &
the things normally not listened during regular life, remembered a lot after
them. Every act or deed of her not considered to be even listening with heart,
but listened a lot after them. The attitude, behavior, act of listening to each
other, sense of consideration of each other thoughts could not forget after
them.
I also, can not forget the time, I have spent for a decade with my first real
companion, she is obviously my wife, the memories I still remembered after her,
Her love, affection, attention, sense of consideration of wears and tears,
attitude of bearing of being deprived of basic necessities with no protest,
lived with cooperation in even a worst span of life. Always looks joyful and
happy get respects and famous amongst the relatives and shares their joyful
events gorgeously reflecting indifferences which were exists, but no regrets of
the miseries & deprivation she had faced.
There is any single word, behavior & event, I don’t remembered over a decade she
remained with me which she said and acted against my will, in every moment she
stares always for my approval to proceed ahead, nothing done any single move
without my consent. That was not meant to a suppressed lady’s attitude but she
was rightly a woman who knows her legitimacy very well but to please her
companion of life put him always on her priority and always looks comfortable.
During her entire stay with me there are so many problems were arises towards
various kinds of social & financial constraints, she always cooperate with full
esteem & enthusiasms.
The such companion really called a friend indeed, she proved at every occasion
while all the winds were flowing at opposite side and no one was with me to
share my grievances for being deprived person feeling alone despite having a lot
of people lived around me for those I myself proved to be a helpful and problems
eradicator prior to married towards various kinds as they told everybody that he
is one who had the qualities to handle all sort of problem wisely, we would not
go ahead but suddenly the things becomes change overnight as soon as I had a
friend who had completed myself in all respect, we both thrown out from the home
by them to whom I had done a lot of work to put in calm to rest of the residents
and even a single person was not came forward to stand along with me and
betrayed openly in such terrifying moment. It was the time she stands fully
cooperated despite facing difficulties having no facility to live together, one
few months baby was also includes with us, we were deliberately ejected from the
home as traditional custom of low income people having no privilege as compared
to the people having high income. That was the moment that our pride of in
difference amongst us for the sake of comparison of income collapsed and a new
view of a truth of life seen where the categories of people were made. The
people earning more money and fulfilled the wishes of family members, they fall
in the most privileged class in a same two beds little house rather than people
having low income and could not fulfilled the undue demands, have no right of
any thing even deserve no respect. That was time I realized very much that my
approach and expertise to deal with the matter in wise manner would support me
at the time of such situation and the people whom I served devotedly would not
detached me from them but all dreams could not be true, I again assessed all of
them but nobody realize that what they have been done to me. At that crucial
time only one person who become my life companion recently looks stand to
support me and there is no doubt she was rightly said to a friend indeed.