What are we becoming?
(Dr natasha, Ivano frankivsk ukraine)
Aging process! Life
expectancy and morbidity! Today's busy life where these words are so
much intermingled. We grow we dream we cherish we grieve. All we
need is some one to hold us or someone who should be held by us vice
versa life is beautiful it's how we make it take it.
Marriage is certainly a contract between two people but what do we
have in today's society, live in relationships, long term relations
ending up with no commitment, cheating partners, unsatisfied spouse,
arranged marriages full of materialism. When will we be able to get
this out of our system/culture/society. We are responsible for
increased divorce rates, mental health issues in children, domestic
violence, post marital depression suicides and naming anything
related with lowering self esteem, blaming ourselves for failure of
marriage. Here today I see husbands cheating in wives just because
the law allows to do so, multiple marriages just to cover up
adultery, will some one out there amend the rules and laws. Domestic
violence is ignored after a bunch of flowers and a box of
chocolates. Cheating a spouse is ignored in fear of being alone
where society howls on the left overs. Today I see old men
attracting school going girls with free expensive clothing , branded
phones, elite dine ins, paying for them and manipulating them in to
keeping relationships. More like the new addiction of 2000s.
We have two societies one where modernization is about destroying
moral values other where in the name of morals relations are sold
for a price for a branded phone.
Where we stand today as responsible people. Where we need to relive
the humanity. Saving the new generation. Losing morals day by day.
Western culture and eastern cultures colliding as we speak. Who is
to blame? We couldn't change the bad to good in rural but we surely
did change the good in urban to something unstoppable.
Today I question myself and you all out there. Where do we stand in
society why can't we out up with moral obligation. Why do we have to
bad eye the HELP at home? Why target the poor with the shining life
they can't afford? Think again and harder once more we are building
a generation which will be unhappy. We all seek happiness don't we?
Is all this inevitable ?